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Commotion in the ocean
Commotion in the ocean By Monica Corcoran
July 20, 2008 in print edition P-2
AH, SURFING. The sport of sinewy iconoclasts. No pesky umpires, no foul lines, no rules. Easy there, Kerouac. There is, in fact, an unspoken etiquette of the ocean. Here are the Top 10 rules of the reef:
1We’re all guests of the sea. Just like you wouldn’t show up at a stranger’s house for dinner, you don’t just “drop in” on someone’s wave. In surfer parlance, “dropping in” means that you grabbed a wave that belonged to someone else, and it’s the worst breach of etiquette.
2”Kook” means loser, not creative type. Surfers still use this old-school pejorative to brand morons, newbies and that guy who yelled, “Shark! Just kidding. What?” Learn the lingo before you go.
3Let Brian Grazer paddle in peace. Yes, there are famous directors and potent producers surfing out in Malibu. But that doesn’t mean you can slip someone your script in a Ziploc bag or audition during a lull. “You don’t network. And if a wave comes, all conversations end abruptly,” says KCRW DJ and music supervisor Liza Richardson, who surfs regularly.
4Study the lineup. Ever notice that surfers bob in semi-organized formations? That’s because there’s a pecking order – based on skill and seniority – known as the “lineup” and it determines who gets the best waves. “If someone is really good, I’ll get out of the way and just watch,” says Dana Nielsen, a veteran surfer and music engineer who works with producer Rick Rubin. And because waves can break left or right, it’s impossible to say who’s the best surfer until he or she starts shredding.
5The old men and the sea. Sexagenarians don’t typically learn to hang ten. Those guys with barnacles in their grizzled beards have been surfing for 30-plus years and have earned the right of way. Respect them.
6Skip the smoky eye, sister. Chris Mauro, editor of Surfer magazine, can spot a beginner by her blue eye shadow. “You’ll see girls wearing makeup or guys who look like they just walked out of a nightclub and you know that they’re new,” he says. “Anyone overdone stands out.”
7Loose boards bash brains. Some pros may scoff at leashes, but most surfers agree that a little leg rope can go a long way. “A projectile surfboard can go anywhere from 20 to 30 miles per hour,” says Weston Kinney, who sells boards (and leashes) at Channel Islands Surfboards on Melrose Boulevard and estimates that 99% of surfers in L.A. use a leash. The rule of thumb: Your leash should be about the same length as your board.
8Don’t brag about secret spots. “A great spot where four people go becomes a place with 12 surfers the next day if word gets out,” says Frank Caronna, founder of Natural Surf Technique school and instructor to Maria Bello and Jessica Biel. “You keep it to yourself.”
9In other words, leave Matthew McConaughey in the car. Just last month, a kerfuffle broke out in Paradise Cove after a phalanx of paparazzi followed the actor to the Malibu beach. When the paps refused to leave, surfers attacked. The end result? Thanks to the press and photos, every first-time surfer who subscribes to Us Weekly will be heading to Paradise Cove from now on.
10Waves of nausea. What do neglected wetsuits and puppies have in common? “Everyone urinates in their wetsuits,” says Caronna, who uses a shot of Woolite when he washes his surf togs. “But if you don’t rinse it in fresh water, and just throw it in the back of your car, that’s trouble.”
Do you have a social woe or etiquette issue? Send questions to the Mannerist at monica.corcoran @latimes.com.
source:http://articles.latimes.com/2008/jul/20/image/ig-mannerist20
Sharing the road – without the rage
Sharing the road – without the rage
As Los Angeles formulates a bike plan, politicians, residents, cyclists and motorists begin a long-overdue conversation about how best to coexist on the city’s highways and byways.
By Martha Groves
July 21, 2008 in print edition B-1
It was big news when prosecutors filed criminal charges against a motorist who allegedly slammed on his brakes in front of two experienced cyclists July 4 on Mandeville Canyon Road, sending both to the hospital with serious injuries.
What didn’t make headlines was another Mandeville Canyon incident that day. Resident Lisa Block was finishing a morning walk on the narrow, winding road when she realized a clump of cyclists were coming up the hill straight at her.
“A guy heading right for me couldn’t move over because there were at least two other bikers to his left,” Block said. “I had to dive off the street and jump into the bushes.”
Though the cyclists were not acting maliciously, she said, the experience rattled her.
These days, many Angelenos are rattled as more cyclists hit the streets to combat high fuel prices, stay fit or help the environment. Riders on two wheels say drivers run them off the road, threaten bodily harm and unleash expletives, if not fists. Motorists counter that cyclists rip off car mirrors, zoom through stop signs and hurl expletives of their own – often drenched in spit.
With the city of Los Angeles in the early stages of formulating a bike plan, and with motorist-vs.-cyclist road rage on the rise, politicians, engineers, residents and cycling enthusiasts have begun what all agree is a long-overdue conversation about how best to coexist on the city’s highways and byways.
“It’s a citywide issue of people sharing the road, whether on foot, a bicycle, a Vespa or in our cars,” said Jeanne Field, a Mandeville Canyon resident. “Manners have just gone out the window.”
Sprawling, smoggy and gridlocked, car-centric Los Angeles hardly pops to mind as a locale where cycling would thrive. But Bicycling magazine recently lauded the nation’s second-largest city as “a future best city” for biking.
The city has hired Alta Planning and Design, a transportation planning consultant based in San Rafael, Calif., to update its outmoded bicycle plan and attempt to create a safe, cohesive network from its more than 350 miles of bike routes, lanes and paths. Another goal is to identify a list of on-street bikeways, bike parking facilities and education programs that the city could develop over the next two decades.
“Los Angeles is a very challenging environment to ride in, given the condition of roadways, the storm grates that will eat your wheels, the lack of formal bike lanes or bike paths, and just a lack of respect and a lack of awareness from motorists about the rights of bicyclists,” said Matt Benjamin, an Alta transportation planner who says he bicycles “everywhere.”
Reliable data on bicycle ridership in Los Angeles don’t exist, but signs of an uptick abound. Bicycle manufacturers and shops say they have seen spikes in business in recent months, and cycling advocacy groups say more riders have taken to the road. Demand has soared for the Los Angeles County Bicycle Coalition’s Metro bike lockers, which rent for $25 a year at many Metro Rail and Metro Orange Line stations, said Jennifer Klausner, the coalition’s executive director.
Spurred on by riders outraged by the Mandeville Canyon incident, Councilman Bill Rosendahl on July 11 introduced a Cyclists’ Bill of Rights to the City Council. The council unanimously supported the motion, which now heads to the transportation committee. Prepared by the Bike Writers Collective, an amalgam of enthusiasts and cycling bloggers, the bill of rights asserts that cyclists are the “indicator species” of a healthy community, represent solutions for environmental woes and traffic congestion, and have the right “to travel safely and free of fear” on public streets.
Separately, the bicycle coalition has proposed a pilot “share the road” program for Councilman Eric Garcetti’s district, which includes Hollywood, East Hollywood, Los Feliz, Silver Lake, Echo Park and Glassell Park. A key element would be “sharrows,” pavement markings that look like two chevrons with a bicycle. They would alert drivers that bicycles might be sharing the lane and show cyclists where they should place themselves – toward the center of the lane – to avoid being “doored” by an oblivious driver in a parked car. Garcetti’s office said Vermont and Fountain avenues are likely locations.
It might surprise some stressed-out, multitasking drivers to learn that the California Vehicle Code gives bicyclists more or less the same rights and rules as drivers of vehicles. Among other provisions, the code states that cyclists moving slower than the normal speed of traffic should ride as close as possible to the right-hand curb or edge of a roadway, but there are exceptions: When overtaking and passing another bicycle or vehicle heading in the same direction, when preparing for a left turn at an intersection or when necessary to avoid hazards, objects, vehicles or pedestrians.
After the uproar over the July 4 incident, Rosendahl first planned a town hall meeting to discuss the matter.
With tensions escalating, he instead assembled, last Monday evening, an invitation-only task force of cyclists, residents and transportation officials to explore how best to ease the conflicts.
Although much of the discussion centered on Mandeville Canyon, “I do think the aggression that motorists are showing toward cyclists is common all over town,” said Klausner of the county bicycle coalition.
“We are the illegitimate bastard child of the transportation industry,” said Brad House, a member of the Los Angeles Bicycle Advisory Committee, who said he spoke only for himself. “Nobody wants us. In Europe, motorists are very respectful of cyclists. In this country, they want us off the road.”
He said he learned that firsthand when a driver pulled up behind him one day. House was in the center of a lane, intending to go straight.
“He yelled, ‘Get off the road or I’m going to hit you!’ ” House said. When the light turned green, House said, he pedaled forward and the driver “full-throttled his car into my bike,” totaling it. House said a highway patrolman wrote up the incident as an accident.
Sense of vulnerability
One longtime Mandeville resident said motorists’ hostility grows out of “the rudeness of the extreme faction” of cyclists. “The extreme ones have a very entitled-seeming way they carry themselves on the bike,” said Desmond McDonald, a mountain biker whose wife’s car mirror was recently broken off by an angry road cyclist.
“This is arrogance coupled with … some sort of assault, whether hitting of the car physically, spitting on a woman’s car or calling her [a name].”
Many veteran riders acknowledge that cyclists occasionally break traffic rules or engage in name-calling when drivers yell, honk impatiently or come close to sideswiping them, but they contend that they react out of a sense of vulnerability.
Bruce J. Steele, an attorney who lives in Redondo Beach, confessed to having occasionally sworn at impatient or careless drivers, but added that “I try not to because we’re not going to win against a car.”
Easing the tension will require a number of steps.
“One certainly is education,” Steele said. “We need to understand we have to use public streets responsibly, but together.”
martha.groves@
source:http://articles.latimes.com/2008/jul/21/local/me-bikes21
THE EFFICIENCY THAT A LABEL PRINTER CAN BRING
THE EFFICIENCY THAT A LABEL PRINTER CAN BRING
A label printer can improve the efficiency of any business. They are highly dependable, hard wearing pieces of equipment that work quickly and accurately. They reduce the man hours on many tasks which translate into less time and money wasted.
Paperwork is a part of nearly every work environment. Although it can be tedious it is important that it be done correctly. A label printer can help this process greatly. A label printer can create a large number of clear labels and tags for a variety of purposes. Its high speed function allows it to do this work quickly, many times faster then doing it manually. This helps the paperwork move on to its next destination quickly so it doesn’t pile up.
Labels and tags are needed for several other purposes. Payroll, billing, and invoices are all documents that may need labelling or tagging at one time or another. Creating these tags manually, with a PC takes time and can be quite complicated. There is also a large potential for error. A label printer can do these tasks, quickly and accurately. This again, saves time and reduces the potential for mistakes.
Label printers are very hard wearing and durable. The office or where house environment can present a fair number of hazards for office equipment. A label printer is able to withstand the bumps and scraps that occur and will be with you for quite sometime.
A label printer does increase office efficiency. It can do all of the labelling and tagging at a much quicker pace than if it was done manually. IT can also produce them at a higher degree of quality and with fewer mistakes. This all translates into less time spent in minor tasks which in the long run saves money.
Source:http://www.etiquette.co.uk/articles/the-efficiency-that-a-label-printer-can-bring.html
A label printer can improve the efficiency of any business. They are highly dependable, hard wearing pieces of equipment that work quickly and accurately. They reduce the man hours on many tasks which translate into less time and money wasted.
Paperwork is a part of nearly every work environment. Although it can be tedious it is important that it be done correctly. A label printer can help this process greatly. A label printer can create a large number of clear labels and tags for a variety of purposes. Its high speed function allows it to do this work quickly, many times faster then doing it manually. This helps the paperwork move on to its next destination quickly so it doesn’t pile up.
Labels and tags are needed for several other purposes. Payroll, billing, and invoices are all documents that may need labelling or tagging at one time or another. Creating these tags manually, with a PC takes time and can be quite complicated. There is also a large potential for error. A label printer can do these tasks, quickly and accurately. This again, saves time and reduces the potential for mistakes.
Label printers are very hard wearing and durable. The office or where house environment can present a fair number of hazards for office equipment. A label printer is able to withstand the bumps and scraps that occur and will be with you for quite sometime.
A label printer does increase office efficiency. It can do all of the labelling and tagging at a much quicker pace than if it was done manually. IT can also produce them at a higher degree of quality and with fewer mistakes. This all translates into less time spent in minor tasks which in the long run saves money.
Source:http://www.etiquette.co.uk/articles/the-efficiency-that-a-label-printer-can-bring.html
HOUSEHOLD LABELLING
HOUSEHOLD LABELLING
Many household items, along with important documents, folders, and mass media storage devices, need to adequately named and tagged, so they are not misplaced. Labels are the best manner in which to keep track of such items, and they come in all shapes and sizes. There are many different types of labels. Coloured labels, which adequately grab attention, are sometimes known to be not as durable as other labels. The traditional white labels are also a valid choice for marking merchandise, but do sometimes tend to be boring, and actually, do not stand out well enough among all of the other paper products in one’s home, or office building.
The main problem with labels is finding one that fits the product you are trying to mark. Some products’ surfaces are not easy to adapt to, especially when dealing with an unreliable source of adhesive. All colours and designs aside, the most important facet of dealing with labels is being able to find one that adequately fits the product, and will stay on the product as long as needed. Granted, many of the labels will need to be replaced over time, but some will actually stay on the surface, if it is pliable.
Labels also come in many different shapes and sizes, which sometimes make it hard to decide on what type to purchase. Don’t ultimately spring for flashy, unless it is a brand that makes good labels with a strong sense of durability. Flashy, more colourful labels are good for items that are easily seen by others, but are pointless if in a closet, or file cabinet, when the job of the label is of the utmost regard, and not the look. Ultimately, the consumer will choose what they deem to be the best one suited for them, but if it is a label that adequately sticks, and provides a good readability, and then the choice is not that hard.
Many household items, along with important documents, folders, and mass media storage devices, need to adequately named and tagged, so they are not misplaced. Labels are the best manner in which to keep track of such items, and they come in all shapes and sizes. There are many different types of labels. Coloured labels, which adequately grab attention, are sometimes known to be not as durable as other labels. The traditional white labels are also a valid choice for marking merchandise, but do sometimes tend to be boring, and actually, do not stand out well enough among all of the other paper products in one’s home, or office building.
The main problem with labels is finding one that fits the product you are trying to mark. Some products’ surfaces are not easy to adapt to, especially when dealing with an unreliable source of adhesive. All colours and designs aside, the most important facet of dealing with labels is being able to find one that adequately fits the product, and will stay on the product as long as needed. Granted, many of the labels will need to be replaced over time, but some will actually stay on the surface, if it is pliable.
Labels also come in many different shapes and sizes, which sometimes make it hard to decide on what type to purchase. Don’t ultimately spring for flashy, unless it is a brand that makes good labels with a strong sense of durability. Flashy, more colourful labels are good for items that are easily seen by others, but are pointless if in a closet, or file cabinet, when the job of the label is of the utmost regard, and not the look. Ultimately, the consumer will choose what they deem to be the best one suited for them, but if it is a label that adequately sticks, and provides a good readability, and then the choice is not that hard.
Tuesday, January 6, 2009
Etiquette in Canada and the United States
From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
Etiquette rules are not uniform in North America, varying among the very diverse societies which exist in both the United States and Canada. Etiquette rules are not simply a description of “cultural norms” and should not be considered a summary of North American sociological behavior, since the rules do not always match the common behavior followed by people. Unlike in cultures with formal class structures, such as nobility and royalty, western etiquette rules exist to assist behavior between and amongst people, so that rather than guess how one should act, one may know the proper behavior; they are never meant to point out the superiority of one person over another.
Traditional codified western etiquette codes developed during the Victorian era, when etiquette standards were based on social expectations. As North American society has shifted its moral focus away from social uniformity and towards fairness since the 1950s, etiquette standards have also evolved to treat sexes, classes, and races equally.
Canada and the United States share cultural and linguistic heritage originating in Europe, and as such some points of etiquette in Europe apply to both, especially in more formal settings and wherever European culture is strongest.
North American Etiquette Basics
Etiquette is meant to establish appropriate behavior. Though etiquette rules may seem arbitrary at times, these are the situations in which a common set of accepted customs help to eliminate awkwardness. Etiquette is not always meant to make others feel at ease or comfortable. Sometimes the appropriate actions are correct even if they are uncomfortable. Etiquette is in effect during negative situations as well as during positive ones.
Like in most countries, some etiquette points are more relevant than others. While King Edward was highly insulted by minor faux pas such as, for example, using the oyster fork to eat salad, in the U.S. and Canada, table manners pale in comparison to insulting someone's ethnic identity.
The etiquette rules mentioned in this article are often less observed or unfamiliar to some natives than they had been in the past. This does not make these rules incorrect or irrelevant.
Points of traditional etiquette that are ignored by many people can be useful to know, particularly when the person one hopes to impress (or at least not offend) is one who does not ignore that particular point of etiquette.
Perhaps the highest tenet of western etiquette is that it is inappropriate to tell others they are not following proper etiquette, unless 1) they are specifically asking you to tell them whether they are being rude, or 2) the person is under your instruction, such as is the case with a parent, babysitter, teacher, or supervisor.
One should never attempt to preemptively excuse themselves from rudeness. "I don't mean to be rude, but..." is never an appropriate beginning to a conversation. "Pardon me for whispering" does not make the whispering acceptable.
One may use one's unique cultural differences as a reason to be more gracious, not less. For example, saying "Well, most people in my culture don't send thank you notes" is an excuse for convenience, not based on etiquette of either culture--no culture condones being ungrateful.
When in an extreme situation where someone's rudeness is causing an intolerable issue, one should bring it to the attention of the person in charge, such as a facility's management, or police. If a situation occurs in your own home, it is appropriate for the host to speak to the person in question (privately if possible), and if necessary one has the option of asking the offending individual to leave, but not to "tell him off."
Judgments of individuals is of course a personal matter, and it is not incorrect to hold certain beliefs about people. However, these opinions should remain private and should not be shared with others in polite company.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Etiquette_in_Canada_and_the_United_States
Etiquette in the Middle East
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The Middle East contains a multitude of societies with different traditions regarding etiquette. Bedouins like this young man wearing a fez are traditionally renowned for their hospitality.As expectations regarding good manners differ from person to person and vary according to each situation, no treatise on the rules of etiquette nor any list of faux pas can ever be complete. As the perception of behaviors and actions vary, intercultural competence is essential. However, a lack of knowledge about the customs and expectations of people of the Middle East can make even the best-intentioned person seem rude, foolish, or worse.
Many matters of etiquette in the Middle East are connected to Islam as it is revealed in the Qur'an and how it has been traditionally understood and practiced throughout the centuries
Points of etiquette
Although the Middle East is a large expanse of geography with a variety of customs, noting the following points of etiquette can be useful when dealing with people around the world who have been raised according to the traditions of the Middle East or, in some cases, Muslim societies elsewhere.
Conducting business effectively in a souk or bazaar requires an understanding of how to haggle like the locals. This is an art requiring participants to be appropriately aggressive, keen to how much should be offered at a given point in a transaction, etc.
The modesty of one's personal attire is of great concern to many in the Middle East, although the parameters of this modesty vary. In Saudi Arabia, for example, many families expect all female members to wear a niqab or burqa while even men and women visiting from other cultures should wear very non-revealing clothes to avoid harsh confrontation. In another example, males and females in shorts, skimpy t-shirts or other "immodest" clothes might find themselves roughly evicted from a variety of places, especially holy sites (be they tended by Muslims, Jews or Christians). Get specific guidelines from locals when possible.
Middle Eastern societies have many rules of etiquette regarding modest clothing - especially head coverings. This Muslim woman in United Arab Emirates wears a niqab, a variety of headscarf popular throughout the Middle East.Regarding head attire specifically, the etiquette at many Muslim holy sites requires that a headscarf or some other modest head covering be worn. For women this might be a hijab and for men it might be a taqiyah (cap), turban, or keffiyeh. A yarmulke or other head covering is expected for men in synagogues and other places where Jews pray. Orthodox Christian sites might require the removal of hats by men but will expect woman to cover their hair with kerchief or veil.
Among Muslims, the left hand is reserved for bodily hygiene and considered unclean. Thus, the right hand should be used for eating. Shaking hands or handing over an item with one's left hand is an insult.[1]
Public displays of affection between people of the opposite gender are frowned upon everywhere more conservative values hold sway.[1]
In many cases, people of the same gender holding hands while walking is considered an ordinary display of friendship without romantic connotations.[2]
In a related point, many people in the Middle East claim a more modest area of personal space than that which is usual elsewhere. Accordingly, it can seem rude for an individual to step away when another individual is stepping closer.[3]
In regard to vocal emphasis, volume and body language, people in the Middle East may communicate in ways which other people (such as English and Germans) reserve for when they are angry or upset. This should be kept in mind when analyzing the mood of a situation. [1]
Special respect is paid to older people in many circumstances. This can include standing when older people enter a room, always greeting older people before others present (even if they are better known to you), standing when speaking to one’s elders and serving older people first at a meal table. [1]
Hospitality is held in high regard throughout the Middle East. Some hosts take pride in the laborious preparation of what is known in Europe as “Turkish coffee”, grinding fresh-roasted coffee beans to a fine powder, dissolving sugar and carefully regulating the heat to produce a result that meets exacting standards.Many people throughout the Middle East, especially Arabs, take great pride in shows of hospitality, never failing to at least serve coffee and a snack such as figs but preferring to present guests with a lavish choice of expensive delicacies in abundance. To refuse such hospitality can cause offense.
In some areas in the Middle East, it is common for people to take their food from a common plate in the center of the table. Rather than employing forks or spoons, people may scoop up hummus and other foodstuff with pita bread.
In many Middle Eastern countries, grouping the thumb and fingers together, and shaking it up and down, fingers pointing upwards, indicates "wait".
In Iran, the "thumbs up" gesture is considered an offensive insult[1]
Displaying the sole of one's foot or touching somebody with one's shoe is often considered rude. In some circumstances, shoes should be removed before entering a living room.[4]
Many in the Middle East do not separate professional and personal life. Doing business revolves much more around personal relationships, family ties, trust and honour. There is a tendency to prioritise personal matters above all else. It is therefore crucial that business relationships are built on mutual friendship and trust.[5]
Responding to an anger or seriousness with light laughter or a smile is common. This must not be seen as an indication that the other person is not taking you or the situation seriously.
A common custom in Iranian culture is 'tarof' which can be translated as 'offering', it is common for a person to not accept an offering (food, beverages etc.) the first or possibly second time, instead taking up the offer the third time, this traditionally implies dignity, self-respect and respect for the host.
Positioning yourself so your back is not facing another person is also a common Iranian custom.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Etiquette_in_the_Middle_East
The Etiquette Advocate
Etiquette - A Critical Component of Business Success
By Nancy Mitchell, The Etiquette Advocate
What's the point of learning antiquated rules of etiquette and decorum in today's high-speed, high-tech world of business? Do you really need to spend time thinking about how to make an introduction, when to present your business card and what fork to use at dinner? The answer is most definitely YES, if you care about increasing your self confidence, building a professional image, earning the respect of your colleagues and clients and becoming a polished representative of your organization. Etiquette skills are a powerful tool that can help you to avoid insults, embarrassments and distractions and to focus on your goals and bottom line.
People who are successful and effective in their careers develop not only an expertise in their field, but an overall polish in deportment and appearance that others try to emulate. They know how to greet guests, make introductions, dine with dignity, converse on many subjects and treat everyone with respect. Observe someone in your field whom you view as successful. Notice how the person can move effortlessly from the conference table to the dining table, handle a variety of challenges without self consciousness, and put colleagues and clients at ease. By learning and practicing etiquette skills, you, too, can develop a demeanor that will increase your level of comfort in a variety of social and business settings.
The rules of etiquette can be compared to a common language that all successful professionals must learn to speak. In today's fiercely competitive world, etiquette intelligence and people skills will distinguish you from the crowd and help you to outclass your competition. While these skills alone will not insure success, they will give you an edge that can make the difference between you and another person who is just as smart and equally as well-trained, and will enhance your self confidence so that you can focus on your agenda and not on yourself.
People make choices in the business arena, and they choose to do business with people they like and respect. Etiquette skills can help you to establish productive relationships with colleagues and clients, and successful relationships begin when you exhibit courtesy, respect and concern for the comfort of others. Better relationships mean better business.
How do your manners measure up?
http://www.salesvantage.com/article/987/Etiquette-A-Critical-Component-of-Business-Success
Sunday, January 4, 2009
a Blog etiquette
How to Set Up a Blog the Media Will Love
By: Najja
Not long ago I attended a call with some of the top journalists working today. And I learned that not only do 79% of these editors find their sources and their story ideas from blogs -- a healthy number start their day by reading their favorites. An editor from Wired said he actually spends TWO HOURS PER DAY reading blogs.
Wow!
So that means, platform builders, we need blogs that are media savvy. Here's my Top Ten list of Things the Media Savvy Blog Must Have. (Remember, our job is to make the media's job ridiculously simple!)
1. Use keyword-rich headers and descriptions, And make sure you make those same keywords your categories. This is why I'm always harping on how important it is for folks to spend time building their keyword list -- and researching it on sites like Overture and www.wordtracker.com
2. Feedblitz. Gotta have that little subscribe box in your upper right hand corner. Then Feedblitz sends the subscriber an email with an excerpt every time you post. Available at www.feedblitz.com
3. Sitemeter. The preferred counter among those who know because it spits the only number that matters, Unique Visitors, your way once per week by email. How convenient! www.sitemeter.com
4. Link to your Media Page. A simple typelist link in the margin will do it -- there's a great example at Andy Wibbel's blog/site at www.andywibbels.com I love how Andy is a master of simplicity. Link this to your media room on your regular site. (What's a media room? Where the media find you, of course!)
5. Set up a sign up form that downloads a digital freebie. Find a system that supports it -- my favorite is 1shoppingcart.com, which collects the data and then delivers an autoresponder with download links in it. This is a great list building tool.
6. Use pictures. I think they make the blog seem more readable, and appealing to the visual types. I get good fr.ee.graphics from Google (just click the Images link after you do a search.) Also there are some great cheap shots to be head from www.istockphoto.com which are only one dollar apiece.
7. Lots of links in posts. It's not only blog etiquette, it's a way to attract SE spiders and bots to your blog posts. They love content rich blogs with lots of outgoing links.
8. Write with brevity. I'm working in this. Make shorter, more frequent posts to drive SE traffic. And keep your blog as casual and 'free wheeling' as it's meant to be.
9. Typelists -- copy in the margins -- that have visuals and important short captions drive traffic to site. I get a great sales conversion rate from my blog because people like my product shots in the margin. Small, snappy covers will do with a bit of short descriptive copy.
10.Audio clips. In this, the age of podcasting, it can't hurt! You can create audio links through sites like www.audioblog.com
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By: Najja
Not long ago I attended a call with some of the top journalists working today. And I learned that not only do 79% of these editors find their sources and their story ideas from blogs -- a healthy number start their day by reading their favorites. An editor from Wired said he actually spends TWO HOURS PER DAY reading blogs.
Wow!
So that means, platform builders, we need blogs that are media savvy. Here's my Top Ten list of Things the Media Savvy Blog Must Have. (Remember, our job is to make the media's job ridiculously simple!)
1. Use keyword-rich headers and descriptions, And make sure you make those same keywords your categories. This is why I'm always harping on how important it is for folks to spend time building their keyword list -- and researching it on sites like Overture and www.wordtracker.com
2. Feedblitz. Gotta have that little subscribe box in your upper right hand corner. Then Feedblitz sends the subscriber an email with an excerpt every time you post. Available at www.feedblitz.com
3. Sitemeter. The preferred counter among those who know because it spits the only number that matters, Unique Visitors, your way once per week by email. How convenient! www.sitemeter.com
4. Link to your Media Page. A simple typelist link in the margin will do it -- there's a great example at Andy Wibbel's blog/site at www.andywibbels.com I love how Andy is a master of simplicity. Link this to your media room on your regular site. (What's a media room? Where the media find you, of course!)
5. Set up a sign up form that downloads a digital freebie. Find a system that supports it -- my favorite is 1shoppingcart.com, which collects the data and then delivers an autoresponder with download links in it. This is a great list building tool.
6. Use pictures. I think they make the blog seem more readable, and appealing to the visual types. I get good fr.ee.graphics from Google (just click the Images link after you do a search.) Also there are some great cheap shots to be head from www.istockphoto.com which are only one dollar apiece.
7. Lots of links in posts. It's not only blog etiquette, it's a way to attract SE spiders and bots to your blog posts. They love content rich blogs with lots of outgoing links.
8. Write with brevity. I'm working in this. Make shorter, more frequent posts to drive SE traffic. And keep your blog as casual and 'free wheeling' as it's meant to be.
9. Typelists -- copy in the margins -- that have visuals and important short captions drive traffic to site. I get a great sales conversion rate from my blog because people like my product shots in the margin. Small, snappy covers will do with a bit of short descriptive copy.
10.Audio clips. In this, the age of podcasting, it can't hurt! You can create audio links through sites like www.audioblog.com
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Customer Etiquette
The 10 Bike Shop Customer Etiquette Commandments
by: Levi Bloom
This article was inspired by all those things customers do that really irritate bike shop owners and employees. I decided to create this list of commandments for you to follow.
1. Thou shall buy from nowhere before your local bike shop.
2. WD-40 shall not be applied as chain lube.
3. Keep frequent thy visits to the local bike shop.
4. Thou shall not park your Mercedes in front of the store and then attempt to haggle the price on a $350 bike.
5. Thou first bike may come from Wal-Mart, but that is it.
6. Thou wert never "just riding along."
7. If thou wert "just riding along," do not expect thou crumpled frame and bent wheels to be covered under warrantee.
8. Thou shall not request solid tubes or at least ask for them to be fixed.
9. If thou wish to get a good deal on a tube by talking to "Rick," maybe you should just see Rich. (If you happen to be in Lincoln, Nebraska, that is.)
10. Thou shall not quote mail-order catalogs in the shop.
If you are a customer, don't be offended, I am partly joking! What fun would a bike shop be without some funny/odd/amusing/stupid events every day?
Thanks go out to Bloom Bike Shop, The Bike Barn, and Bike Pedalers bike shops for their input.
by: Levi Bloom
This article was inspired by all those things customers do that really irritate bike shop owners and employees. I decided to create this list of commandments for you to follow.
1. Thou shall buy from nowhere before your local bike shop.
2. WD-40 shall not be applied as chain lube.
3. Keep frequent thy visits to the local bike shop.
4. Thou shall not park your Mercedes in front of the store and then attempt to haggle the price on a $350 bike.
5. Thou first bike may come from Wal-Mart, but that is it.
6. Thou wert never "just riding along."
7. If thou wert "just riding along," do not expect thou crumpled frame and bent wheels to be covered under warrantee.
8. Thou shall not request solid tubes or at least ask for them to be fixed.
9. If thou wish to get a good deal on a tube by talking to "Rick," maybe you should just see Rich. (If you happen to be in Lincoln, Nebraska, that is.)
10. Thou shall not quote mail-order catalogs in the shop.
If you are a customer, don't be offended, I am partly joking! What fun would a bike shop be without some funny/odd/amusing/stupid events every day?
Thanks go out to Bloom Bike Shop, The Bike Barn, and Bike Pedalers bike shops for their input.
Fishing Etiquette
Fishing Etiquette - Good Manners For All Generations
by: Joseph J. Breunig 3rd
Reasonable people will readily agree that Life is a series of choices. We hope (and pray) that making good decisions will come more naturally as we mature and grow older. In conjunction with these concepts, most individuals acknowledge that as adults, "we are personally accountable for the results of those judgements"; an idea that some people have difficulty accepting.
Being a fisherman is definitely a hugely, conscious decision. For some, "To Fish or Not To Fish" is never a consideration for the true angler. After all, a considerable investment of time, money and resources are required for the self-sufficient, stand-alone angler. As your fishing budget grows, the number of "required" items increases significantly. A typical inventory can include:
* Boat, Engine, Spare Prop(s), Trailer, Towing Vehicle and state registration of said items.
* Fishing License, Rods and Reels (plus spare parts).
* Tackle Box, Spools of Filament (of various thicknesses), Fishing Tackle (broken down by Fish Species), Bobbers, Weights, Hooks and Leaders.
* Fishing Knives, Nets, Bait and other Sundry Stuff.
* Exotic gadgets such as Trolling Motors and Depth Finders.
* Food, Beverages, Trashbags, Gasoline, Oil, Parking, Membership and Access Fees.
This is a fair amount of planning and we have yet to reach the water. Then there is the challenge of allocating quality time without negatively impacting personal duties of church, family and work commitments. The complications of scheduling time may increase (exponentially) as one adds fishing companions. As one famous fisherman quipped, "If your job interferes with your ability to fish, then quit your job." An ideal that many fishers strive for today while others fall short.
So after this lengthy introduction, you're probably wondering "what is your point"? I'm glad you asked.
Obviously, being a fisherman is not unqiue - for there are many, many people who enjoy this activity. The types of fishermen can be divided into three basic categories:
** People who fish from "a Boat".
** People who fish from "the water".
** People who fish from "the shore".
Regardless of which category you place yourself, the idea of "Personal Conduct" must be included. An investment of fishing gear does not give one "exclusive rights" to a fishing hole. The idea of "sharing" is a lifelong concept; so accept it and move on. (In some areas, if you're not cognizant of this ideal, there are people who will inflict bodily harm as a reminder. And for those who are unsure, I'm not from the school of "might" makes "right". Perhaps one day I'll add the "Game Warden" to my cell phone list, should the need become apparent.)
For the genuine fisherman, a "Code of Conduct" is automatic and second nature. For others, who were not blessed with the legacy of a fishing family, they just need some proper instruction and enlightenment. So when in doubt, ask for help. Take lessons, observe others or contact your lake's Pond Association - they are a great source of information. Good manners need to be learned, no matter where you find yourself. Common sense, while obvious to most, is not so for all.
Fishing's informal principles include, but are not limited to:
* Treat fish with care; learn the principles of Catch & Release.
* Show respect for other people's property.
* Show respect for the environment; bring your own litter home with you; pick up other people's trash (and set an example).
* Don't disturb wildlife; for example, in Maine, human destruction of a loon's nest is a state offense.
* Keep a respectable distance from other fishermen; don't cross or drive over the lines of others; Give other anglers (and boaters) a wide berth.
* Don't bring blaring radios; if you must have one, then bring headphones.
* Learn the State's boating laws.
* Learn about the rights of property owners when accessing great waters by foot.
* Sharing fishing techniques.
* Understand breeding patterns of applicable species; return spawning fish back to the water.
* When applicable, give your fishing partner every opportunity to catch fish, just as you would expect him to give you the same opportunity if you were in the back of his boat.
* If someone signals for emergency assistance, then respond immediately. The fish can wait - Someday you may need directional help or a tow.
* Beware of what is going on; check weather forcasts in advance.
* Do not spill gasoline, oil or other pollutants on land or into the water.
* Observe your speed, wake and wash, while keeping a safe distance from jetties, water/shore-based anglers and other watercrafts.
* Mobile Phones are great for emergencies, but keep them turned off while fishing.
* It is also against the law to drink alcohol in most fishing boats.
* Report environmental damage and pollution to the relevant (state and local) authorities.
* Your actions should always be governed by what is right – BOTH ethically and legally.
* These ideals are for ALL fishermen; gender, youth or old age are not acceptable excuses. Be polite when attempting to teach less skilled anglers.
As a final thought, here is a quote from Baba Dioum:
** ln the end, we will conserve only what we love.
** We love only what we understand.
** We will understand only what we are taught.
Please note: This list is not all inclusive; learn to use your brain for something other than a seat cushion. Additional suggestions are welcomed.
by: Joseph J. Breunig 3rd
Reasonable people will readily agree that Life is a series of choices. We hope (and pray) that making good decisions will come more naturally as we mature and grow older. In conjunction with these concepts, most individuals acknowledge that as adults, "we are personally accountable for the results of those judgements"; an idea that some people have difficulty accepting.
Being a fisherman is definitely a hugely, conscious decision. For some, "To Fish or Not To Fish" is never a consideration for the true angler. After all, a considerable investment of time, money and resources are required for the self-sufficient, stand-alone angler. As your fishing budget grows, the number of "required" items increases significantly. A typical inventory can include:
* Boat, Engine, Spare Prop(s), Trailer, Towing Vehicle and state registration of said items.
* Fishing License, Rods and Reels (plus spare parts).
* Tackle Box, Spools of Filament (of various thicknesses), Fishing Tackle (broken down by Fish Species), Bobbers, Weights, Hooks and Leaders.
* Fishing Knives, Nets, Bait and other Sundry Stuff.
* Exotic gadgets such as Trolling Motors and Depth Finders.
* Food, Beverages, Trashbags, Gasoline, Oil, Parking, Membership and Access Fees.
This is a fair amount of planning and we have yet to reach the water. Then there is the challenge of allocating quality time without negatively impacting personal duties of church, family and work commitments. The complications of scheduling time may increase (exponentially) as one adds fishing companions. As one famous fisherman quipped, "If your job interferes with your ability to fish, then quit your job." An ideal that many fishers strive for today while others fall short.
So after this lengthy introduction, you're probably wondering "what is your point"? I'm glad you asked.
Obviously, being a fisherman is not unqiue - for there are many, many people who enjoy this activity. The types of fishermen can be divided into three basic categories:
** People who fish from "a Boat".
** People who fish from "the water".
** People who fish from "the shore".
Regardless of which category you place yourself, the idea of "Personal Conduct" must be included. An investment of fishing gear does not give one "exclusive rights" to a fishing hole. The idea of "sharing" is a lifelong concept; so accept it and move on. (In some areas, if you're not cognizant of this ideal, there are people who will inflict bodily harm as a reminder. And for those who are unsure, I'm not from the school of "might" makes "right". Perhaps one day I'll add the "Game Warden" to my cell phone list, should the need become apparent.)
For the genuine fisherman, a "Code of Conduct" is automatic and second nature. For others, who were not blessed with the legacy of a fishing family, they just need some proper instruction and enlightenment. So when in doubt, ask for help. Take lessons, observe others or contact your lake's Pond Association - they are a great source of information. Good manners need to be learned, no matter where you find yourself. Common sense, while obvious to most, is not so for all.
Fishing's informal principles include, but are not limited to:
* Treat fish with care; learn the principles of Catch & Release.
* Show respect for other people's property.
* Show respect for the environment; bring your own litter home with you; pick up other people's trash (and set an example).
* Don't disturb wildlife; for example, in Maine, human destruction of a loon's nest is a state offense.
* Keep a respectable distance from other fishermen; don't cross or drive over the lines of others; Give other anglers (and boaters) a wide berth.
* Don't bring blaring radios; if you must have one, then bring headphones.
* Learn the State's boating laws.
* Learn about the rights of property owners when accessing great waters by foot.
* Sharing fishing techniques.
* Understand breeding patterns of applicable species; return spawning fish back to the water.
* When applicable, give your fishing partner every opportunity to catch fish, just as you would expect him to give you the same opportunity if you were in the back of his boat.
* If someone signals for emergency assistance, then respond immediately. The fish can wait - Someday you may need directional help or a tow.
* Beware of what is going on; check weather forcasts in advance.
* Do not spill gasoline, oil or other pollutants on land or into the water.
* Observe your speed, wake and wash, while keeping a safe distance from jetties, water/shore-based anglers and other watercrafts.
* Mobile Phones are great for emergencies, but keep them turned off while fishing.
* It is also against the law to drink alcohol in most fishing boats.
* Report environmental damage and pollution to the relevant (state and local) authorities.
* Your actions should always be governed by what is right – BOTH ethically and legally.
* These ideals are for ALL fishermen; gender, youth or old age are not acceptable excuses. Be polite when attempting to teach less skilled anglers.
As a final thought, here is a quote from Baba Dioum:
** ln the end, we will conserve only what we love.
** We love only what we understand.
** We will understand only what we are taught.
Please note: This list is not all inclusive; learn to use your brain for something other than a seat cushion. Additional suggestions are welcomed.
Dinner Party Etiquette
by: Robert Jackson
Dinner party etiquette, and indeed the subject of etiquette in general is wrapped up and disguised in layer upon layer of old school tradition!
Here at Gourmet Food Revolution, I intend to dispel some of the mystique of dinner party etiquette. Here you will find easy, commonsense advice and tips to help you through any modern day formal or semi-formal dinner occasion.
Whether you happen to be hosting a party or attending as a guest, this information is for you……………this is dinner party etiquette for the new millennium!
Dinner Party Etiquette - the Basics
Even in today’s fast and ever changing lifestyle, there is one very simple skill which if we don’t already possess, can easily be learned that is guaranteed to get you through even the most trying social occasion – good manners! Yes, something as simple as politeness and good manners will make up ten fold for any lack of etiquette know-how.
And if you are not sure if your manners are good enough, pick a role model and compare your behaviour with them. This could be someone well known on screen or television, or perhaps a friend, colleague or business associate. Pay attention to how they behave around other people. Learn from them!
Learn to be confident in yourself. Unease and nervousness in social occasions will undoubtedly make you feel uncomfortable and thus more prone to unnatural behaviour. A good tip before any important occasion is to go somewhere quiet on your own and sit or preferably, lay down. Close you eyes – and relax by taking long, slow, deep breaths. Then in your imagination, see yourself at that social event looking calm and confident. Imagine yourself interacting comfortably with other guests – you are a total success! Feel the experience – really let it sink in. This type of mental programming will assist you tremendously.
As host or dinner guest, never allow yourself to be persuaded into believing that the more you spend, the greater the impression you will make! That may be true in certain (frivolous!) circles of society, but it is generally not so, and it is certainly quite unnecessary. Spend only that which you can comfortably afford.
If you would like more detailed guidance on dinner table etiquette, CLICK HERE
Dinner Party Etiquette - Myths and Unnecessary Trivia
What rules? There are no rules!!
We hear a great deal about rules of etiquette, as though they were written in stone somewhere, or part of the Constitution! What is acceptable to one person or one society may be totally unacceptable to another. If you must live by rules, then develop your own list of rules! Rules of etiquette steeped in history and tradition have very little real relevance in today’s society.
Some folk firmly believe that unless you come from a background of substantial wealth and a particular upbringing, then you are automatically excluded from certain social choices. This is completely, and utterly, ridiculous! In my profession, I have performed the role of Butler at numerous very grand and formal social occasions for the wealthy and upper classes. And I do not exaggerate when I say that on occasions, the behaviour of some of those attending was truly appalling. Social background, education and wealth are no guarantees of good manners and proper behaviour!
Often a dinner host or hostess believes that the more complex the menu, the more extravagant the occasion, the more elaborate the table setting ……the more he or she will impress the guests! That is far from the reality! A simple yet stylish, well executed dinner party delivered with thought, care and attention, will achieve a far greater result……..for a lot less stress!
Dress code? Just as there are no rules in modern day entertaining, there is also…..no dress code! However, if it’s a formal affair and the host has clearly indicated a dress style (black tie, lounge suits, smart casual etc) then clearly, the dinner guest should respect that. As a host however, do consider carefully whether such a stipulation is really necessary. The trend these days is very much towards casual dining and generally speaking, most dinner guests will be more relaxed in that situation.
Dinner Party Etiquette - Social Behaviour
If you are hosting a dinner party, use yourself as an example of what you consider to be acceptable social behaviour. Most dinner guests will take their lead from you – and if they don’t, they probably shouldn’t be there and are unlikely to be invited again!
The art of conversation! The successful dinner party host should always encourage lively and varied conversation with honest opinions being expressed and shared. However, proper dinner party etiquette should encourage avoiding sensitive issues or subjects that some guests may find uncomfortable. As a considerate dinner host, if such a conversation is under way, discreetly interject and carefully change the subject. Or if that fails, interrupt by introducing the next course!
For both the dinner host and guest, excessive behaviour of any sort is to be avoided. That should include excessive drinking, excessive talking (being overbearing!), excessive joke telling (particularly bad ones!!) and even excessive eating! A healthy appetite is to be enjoyed, over indulgence however, is not an endearing feature!
To smoke, or not to smoke? Ultimately, it is the responsibility of the host or hostess to dictate on this. As smoking becomes less and less acceptable publicly, it is quite unacceptable to do so at a dinner table unless expressly invited to do so. It can be a sensitive issue. Personally, I would advise that the host makes another room available (perhaps where after dinner coffee will be served) for any guest wishing to smoke. Again, there are no strict rules on this subject – as dinner host, you must make this choice for your guests.
If you would like more detailed guidance on table setting etiquette, CLICK HERE
Dinner Party Etiquette - Place and Table Setting
The days of making an impression by setting out enormous and extravagant place settings with numerous pieces of (sometimes confusing!) cutlery and glassware for an excessively long menu are thankfully, largely over. Keep the setting simple by putting in place only that which is required up to and including the main course. Cutlery for any following courses can acceptably be provided as the dinner progresses and concludes.
Excessively large, elaborate table decorations and expensive, hall marked tableware are quite unnecessary (unless ofcourse they are family heirlooms!). A simple yet thoughtfully styled table using the best that you own and can afford can be very affective. Don’t be led into the trap of believing that your table must look like something off the front of a glossy home design magazine! I said earlier that there are no rules. Well infact there is one golden rule………..keep it simple!
If you are hosting a large dinner party, then a table plan and place cards are essential. For a smaller party however, avoid such unnecessary protocol. Simply, casually direct dinner guests to sit where you would prefer them to.
This is dinner party etiquette for the 21st century. All of the above is no more than plain, common sense! And it is also about behaving responsibly and not offensively!
As a final word, please remember that the true art of entertaining has one prime goal………..that of pleasure! It should be enjoyed by host and guest alike. So at all costs, avoid being overly concerned about what is “right, and what is “wrong”. Do what you feel is right ……..and if you do happen to make the odd gaff - as long as you carry it off with grace, honesty and humility, you will happily survive the day! After all, it is only a dinner party!
Relax…………..and enjoy!
Dinner party etiquette, and indeed the subject of etiquette in general is wrapped up and disguised in layer upon layer of old school tradition!
Here at Gourmet Food Revolution, I intend to dispel some of the mystique of dinner party etiquette. Here you will find easy, commonsense advice and tips to help you through any modern day formal or semi-formal dinner occasion.
Whether you happen to be hosting a party or attending as a guest, this information is for you……………this is dinner party etiquette for the new millennium!
Dinner Party Etiquette - the Basics
Even in today’s fast and ever changing lifestyle, there is one very simple skill which if we don’t already possess, can easily be learned that is guaranteed to get you through even the most trying social occasion – good manners! Yes, something as simple as politeness and good manners will make up ten fold for any lack of etiquette know-how.
And if you are not sure if your manners are good enough, pick a role model and compare your behaviour with them. This could be someone well known on screen or television, or perhaps a friend, colleague or business associate. Pay attention to how they behave around other people. Learn from them!
Learn to be confident in yourself. Unease and nervousness in social occasions will undoubtedly make you feel uncomfortable and thus more prone to unnatural behaviour. A good tip before any important occasion is to go somewhere quiet on your own and sit or preferably, lay down. Close you eyes – and relax by taking long, slow, deep breaths. Then in your imagination, see yourself at that social event looking calm and confident. Imagine yourself interacting comfortably with other guests – you are a total success! Feel the experience – really let it sink in. This type of mental programming will assist you tremendously.
As host or dinner guest, never allow yourself to be persuaded into believing that the more you spend, the greater the impression you will make! That may be true in certain (frivolous!) circles of society, but it is generally not so, and it is certainly quite unnecessary. Spend only that which you can comfortably afford.
If you would like more detailed guidance on dinner table etiquette, CLICK HERE
Dinner Party Etiquette - Myths and Unnecessary Trivia
What rules? There are no rules!!
We hear a great deal about rules of etiquette, as though they were written in stone somewhere, or part of the Constitution! What is acceptable to one person or one society may be totally unacceptable to another. If you must live by rules, then develop your own list of rules! Rules of etiquette steeped in history and tradition have very little real relevance in today’s society.
Some folk firmly believe that unless you come from a background of substantial wealth and a particular upbringing, then you are automatically excluded from certain social choices. This is completely, and utterly, ridiculous! In my profession, I have performed the role of Butler at numerous very grand and formal social occasions for the wealthy and upper classes. And I do not exaggerate when I say that on occasions, the behaviour of some of those attending was truly appalling. Social background, education and wealth are no guarantees of good manners and proper behaviour!
Often a dinner host or hostess believes that the more complex the menu, the more extravagant the occasion, the more elaborate the table setting ……the more he or she will impress the guests! That is far from the reality! A simple yet stylish, well executed dinner party delivered with thought, care and attention, will achieve a far greater result……..for a lot less stress!
Dress code? Just as there are no rules in modern day entertaining, there is also…..no dress code! However, if it’s a formal affair and the host has clearly indicated a dress style (black tie, lounge suits, smart casual etc) then clearly, the dinner guest should respect that. As a host however, do consider carefully whether such a stipulation is really necessary. The trend these days is very much towards casual dining and generally speaking, most dinner guests will be more relaxed in that situation.
Dinner Party Etiquette - Social Behaviour
If you are hosting a dinner party, use yourself as an example of what you consider to be acceptable social behaviour. Most dinner guests will take their lead from you – and if they don’t, they probably shouldn’t be there and are unlikely to be invited again!
The art of conversation! The successful dinner party host should always encourage lively and varied conversation with honest opinions being expressed and shared. However, proper dinner party etiquette should encourage avoiding sensitive issues or subjects that some guests may find uncomfortable. As a considerate dinner host, if such a conversation is under way, discreetly interject and carefully change the subject. Or if that fails, interrupt by introducing the next course!
For both the dinner host and guest, excessive behaviour of any sort is to be avoided. That should include excessive drinking, excessive talking (being overbearing!), excessive joke telling (particularly bad ones!!) and even excessive eating! A healthy appetite is to be enjoyed, over indulgence however, is not an endearing feature!
To smoke, or not to smoke? Ultimately, it is the responsibility of the host or hostess to dictate on this. As smoking becomes less and less acceptable publicly, it is quite unacceptable to do so at a dinner table unless expressly invited to do so. It can be a sensitive issue. Personally, I would advise that the host makes another room available (perhaps where after dinner coffee will be served) for any guest wishing to smoke. Again, there are no strict rules on this subject – as dinner host, you must make this choice for your guests.
If you would like more detailed guidance on table setting etiquette, CLICK HERE
Dinner Party Etiquette - Place and Table Setting
The days of making an impression by setting out enormous and extravagant place settings with numerous pieces of (sometimes confusing!) cutlery and glassware for an excessively long menu are thankfully, largely over. Keep the setting simple by putting in place only that which is required up to and including the main course. Cutlery for any following courses can acceptably be provided as the dinner progresses and concludes.
Excessively large, elaborate table decorations and expensive, hall marked tableware are quite unnecessary (unless ofcourse they are family heirlooms!). A simple yet thoughtfully styled table using the best that you own and can afford can be very affective. Don’t be led into the trap of believing that your table must look like something off the front of a glossy home design magazine! I said earlier that there are no rules. Well infact there is one golden rule………..keep it simple!
If you are hosting a large dinner party, then a table plan and place cards are essential. For a smaller party however, avoid such unnecessary protocol. Simply, casually direct dinner guests to sit where you would prefer them to.
This is dinner party etiquette for the 21st century. All of the above is no more than plain, common sense! And it is also about behaving responsibly and not offensively!
As a final word, please remember that the true art of entertaining has one prime goal………..that of pleasure! It should be enjoyed by host and guest alike. So at all costs, avoid being overly concerned about what is “right, and what is “wrong”. Do what you feel is right ……..and if you do happen to make the odd gaff - as long as you carry it off with grace, honesty and humility, you will happily survive the day! After all, it is only a dinner party!
Relax…………..and enjoy!
Gift Giving Etiquette
By Wendy Wood
Don't look a gift horse in the mouth. Yes, but there are certain do's and don'ts when it comes to gift giving. When you know the recipient fairly well, selecting a gift is easy. But, you have to remember what they really don't like or your effort at gifting them could turn out disastrous. You have also to keep track of what you had given them on previous occasions. Of course, some people love to get the same thing over and over again, especially if it is their favorite item. In the business setting, here are a few gift giving tips that might help: Find items that leave a lasting impression People are in business to impress. First impressions count a lot, and the same applies to your gift. It colors the client's perception of you as an individual and you as a business associate. Capitalize on your client's interests Everyone loves a gift related to something they cherish or appreciate. If your client is a sports fan, get some sports memorabilia or tickets to a game. If you haven't had the chance to get acquainted with your client's likes and dislikes, find out from their secretary or assistant before you get them a gift. Observe corporate gift-giving guidelines If an employee of a company is to be the recipient of your gift, find out the company's gift-giving standards from a manager. Give a gift of appropriate value Too cheap a gift would annoy a client and too expensive a gift might shock or embarrass them. So, stay within your budget, be generous enough, but don't overdo it. Give an appropriate gift A gift of liquor given to a connoisseur of alcoholic beverages will be well appreciated while the same gift given to a teetotaler will be rebuked. When giving gifts to members of the opposite sex, definitely avoid personal items. You might include humor in your gifts with people you know well, but even then, be careful if they are of a different culture. Humor that's innocent in one culture may be scorned upon in another. Use your logo with caution Gifts are a good way to promote yourself and your business but having your logo in large print across the front of the gift is no appropriate way to advertise yourself. It is too blatant and repulsive. You can subtly hide your logo in the packaging, though. Think of the joy your gift is to give someone. If you can see your gift delivering that joy, then that is the most effective advertising. Lend a personal touch Hand-write notes to go along with your gift. Don't type everything-that's too cold. Aim to see the gleam in the eye of the recipient of your gift. Then, you'll be sure to follow your heart and give a gift that's well appreciated and remembered for years to come. After all, it's the thought that goes along with the gift that's most important.
Don't look a gift horse in the mouth. Yes, but there are certain do's and don'ts when it comes to gift giving. When you know the recipient fairly well, selecting a gift is easy. But, you have to remember what they really don't like or your effort at gifting them could turn out disastrous. You have also to keep track of what you had given them on previous occasions. Of course, some people love to get the same thing over and over again, especially if it is their favorite item. In the business setting, here are a few gift giving tips that might help: Find items that leave a lasting impression People are in business to impress. First impressions count a lot, and the same applies to your gift. It colors the client's perception of you as an individual and you as a business associate. Capitalize on your client's interests Everyone loves a gift related to something they cherish or appreciate. If your client is a sports fan, get some sports memorabilia or tickets to a game. If you haven't had the chance to get acquainted with your client's likes and dislikes, find out from their secretary or assistant before you get them a gift. Observe corporate gift-giving guidelines If an employee of a company is to be the recipient of your gift, find out the company's gift-giving standards from a manager. Give a gift of appropriate value Too cheap a gift would annoy a client and too expensive a gift might shock or embarrass them. So, stay within your budget, be generous enough, but don't overdo it. Give an appropriate gift A gift of liquor given to a connoisseur of alcoholic beverages will be well appreciated while the same gift given to a teetotaler will be rebuked. When giving gifts to members of the opposite sex, definitely avoid personal items. You might include humor in your gifts with people you know well, but even then, be careful if they are of a different culture. Humor that's innocent in one culture may be scorned upon in another. Use your logo with caution Gifts are a good way to promote yourself and your business but having your logo in large print across the front of the gift is no appropriate way to advertise yourself. It is too blatant and repulsive. You can subtly hide your logo in the packaging, though. Think of the joy your gift is to give someone. If you can see your gift delivering that joy, then that is the most effective advertising. Lend a personal touch Hand-write notes to go along with your gift. Don't type everything-that's too cold. Aim to see the gleam in the eye of the recipient of your gift. Then, you'll be sure to follow your heart and give a gift that's well appreciated and remembered for years to come. After all, it's the thought that goes along with the gift that's most important.
Etiquette! to Make Friend
Want To Make Friends? Use Power Scooters Etiquette!
By RC Rougeux
New to the life of power scooters? Here are some pointers in etiquette to help you enjoy your power scooter and make sure that others enjoy and respect your presence as well.
1. Stick to the sidewalk. In most jurisdictions you are considered a pedestrian and should avoid driving on the road.
2. If it is impossible to NOT drive on the road, drive facing traffic and be sure to have reflectors on your power scooter during the day and a headlight on it at night.
3. People often build their own canopies for their power scooters but these can actually be potentially hazardous in that they are often too heavy for the scooter and they create a number of blind spots while you drive. If you have a "made it yourself" canopy, make sure you attach mirrors and check your blind spots when you drive.
4. Cross at crosswalks, not in the middle of the road.
5. Although you are a pedestrian, you could still face motor vehicle charges if you operate your scooter while impaired. Stay sober.
6. Attach a tall flag to your scooter to make sure you are seen from a distance. A bright orange flag is the best.
7. Keep your eyes open up ahead as you drive and move to the right hand side of the sidewalk if you see approach "traffic".
8. Remember that power scooters are very quiet, so if you happen to drive up behind someone who is walking slowly, announce your presence gently rather than simply passing them...you might surprise them!
9. Don't watch a portable television while you drive your scooter.
10. Don't listen to your headphones as you drive unless you are on a closed pedestrian only pathway... and even then, keep your music down: otherwise, you may not hear approaching traffic or someone trying to get your attention.
11. If you do a lot of traveling at night, be sure to use all terrain tires. Knobby tires are very loud.
12. If you have a horn, use it as you approach a hidden turn or a covered driveway. That way, if someone is coming around the turn or backing out of the driveway, they will hear you. Since you travel faster than someone walking, they may not stop in time if your scooter is at full speed.
13. Be mindful of other shoppers if you are driving around the store. Your scooter actually has a better turn radius than those huge shopping carts, so people might have to rely on your great driving skills to avoid a collision.
14. Never tow anything with your scooter. Driving around in power scooters is a two way street! You need to give respect and expect respect as you operate it.
If you don't, you'll just make it harder for other power scooter users to feel safe and free to travel. When you use these 14 rules of etiquette for power scooters, you'll enjoy your trip and other people will happily share the sidewalk.
By RC Rougeux
New to the life of power scooters? Here are some pointers in etiquette to help you enjoy your power scooter and make sure that others enjoy and respect your presence as well.
1. Stick to the sidewalk. In most jurisdictions you are considered a pedestrian and should avoid driving on the road.
2. If it is impossible to NOT drive on the road, drive facing traffic and be sure to have reflectors on your power scooter during the day and a headlight on it at night.
3. People often build their own canopies for their power scooters but these can actually be potentially hazardous in that they are often too heavy for the scooter and they create a number of blind spots while you drive. If you have a "made it yourself" canopy, make sure you attach mirrors and check your blind spots when you drive.
4. Cross at crosswalks, not in the middle of the road.
5. Although you are a pedestrian, you could still face motor vehicle charges if you operate your scooter while impaired. Stay sober.
6. Attach a tall flag to your scooter to make sure you are seen from a distance. A bright orange flag is the best.
7. Keep your eyes open up ahead as you drive and move to the right hand side of the sidewalk if you see approach "traffic".
8. Remember that power scooters are very quiet, so if you happen to drive up behind someone who is walking slowly, announce your presence gently rather than simply passing them...you might surprise them!
9. Don't watch a portable television while you drive your scooter.
10. Don't listen to your headphones as you drive unless you are on a closed pedestrian only pathway... and even then, keep your music down: otherwise, you may not hear approaching traffic or someone trying to get your attention.
11. If you do a lot of traveling at night, be sure to use all terrain tires. Knobby tires are very loud.
12. If you have a horn, use it as you approach a hidden turn or a covered driveway. That way, if someone is coming around the turn or backing out of the driveway, they will hear you. Since you travel faster than someone walking, they may not stop in time if your scooter is at full speed.
13. Be mindful of other shoppers if you are driving around the store. Your scooter actually has a better turn radius than those huge shopping carts, so people might have to rely on your great driving skills to avoid a collision.
14. Never tow anything with your scooter. Driving around in power scooters is a two way street! You need to give respect and expect respect as you operate it.
If you don't, you'll just make it harder for other power scooter users to feel safe and free to travel. When you use these 14 rules of etiquette for power scooters, you'll enjoy your trip and other people will happily share the sidewalk.
Helpful Tips on Appropriate Spa Etiquette
by Chris Turley
It has been a week of endless paperwork and demanding deadlines. Not to mention crazy traffic jams and a few problems at home. Fortunately, there is a place called a spa to help you relieve some of that stress. There is a wide selection of services you can choose from ranging from facials to a session of a heated massage rock placed on the body. Whatever treatment you may choose, it will surely help you relax and lighten all the tension in your body.
A spa is a place where you can loosen up for a few minutes or even hours. It is located everywhere especially near homes and workplaces. Although this is a very therapeutic place, it is also your job as a client to do your part to make your spa experience better. Here is some spa etiquette that you should follow:
• Book your spa appointment ahead of time. In this way, your therapist can schedule you in the most convenient time for the both of you. • Come on time for your appointment. It is impolite to be late and you will not have enough time to relax before your sauna or steam bath. • Turn off your blackberry or other phones if you are to begin your treatment session. In doing this, you will avoid bothering other clients who are enjoying their quiet time. • Ask questions and use spa facilities with caution. If you are not familiar with a treatment or how to operate a facility, it is much better to ask for assistance. • If you are scheduled for several treatments, ask the therapist what treatments are recommended to be done first. • Discuss with your therapist any concerns you may have with your requested treatment. For instance, if you decided to have a massage using a heated massage rock, then feel free to ask her questions on the procedure. • It is alright to have a chat with your therapist but you are not obliged to talk to her during the whole treatment. • After a massage treatment, you will be given enough time to get off the table. Some spa facilities will actually allow you to have an afternoon nap but others may not so inquire first on the facilities' regulations before doing so. • It is recommended to give a 10-15% tip to your massage therapist. If you are pleased with her service you can offer her more. You can also show appreciation by recommending her to your family and friends.
A spa experience is truly heavenly especially if you've experienced a very stressful week at home and at the workplace. It alleviates body pains and relaxes the mind, body and spirit. It is nice to give yourself a little pampering time once in awhile after working so hard and subjecting yourself to the tough demands of your life.
It has been a week of endless paperwork and demanding deadlines. Not to mention crazy traffic jams and a few problems at home. Fortunately, there is a place called a spa to help you relieve some of that stress. There is a wide selection of services you can choose from ranging from facials to a session of a heated massage rock placed on the body. Whatever treatment you may choose, it will surely help you relax and lighten all the tension in your body.
A spa is a place where you can loosen up for a few minutes or even hours. It is located everywhere especially near homes and workplaces. Although this is a very therapeutic place, it is also your job as a client to do your part to make your spa experience better. Here is some spa etiquette that you should follow:
• Book your spa appointment ahead of time. In this way, your therapist can schedule you in the most convenient time for the both of you. • Come on time for your appointment. It is impolite to be late and you will not have enough time to relax before your sauna or steam bath. • Turn off your blackberry or other phones if you are to begin your treatment session. In doing this, you will avoid bothering other clients who are enjoying their quiet time. • Ask questions and use spa facilities with caution. If you are not familiar with a treatment or how to operate a facility, it is much better to ask for assistance. • If you are scheduled for several treatments, ask the therapist what treatments are recommended to be done first. • Discuss with your therapist any concerns you may have with your requested treatment. For instance, if you decided to have a massage using a heated massage rock, then feel free to ask her questions on the procedure. • It is alright to have a chat with your therapist but you are not obliged to talk to her during the whole treatment. • After a massage treatment, you will be given enough time to get off the table. Some spa facilities will actually allow you to have an afternoon nap but others may not so inquire first on the facilities' regulations before doing so. • It is recommended to give a 10-15% tip to your massage therapist. If you are pleased with her service you can offer her more. You can also show appreciation by recommending her to your family and friends.
A spa experience is truly heavenly especially if you've experienced a very stressful week at home and at the workplace. It alleviates body pains and relaxes the mind, body and spirit. It is nice to give yourself a little pampering time once in awhile after working so hard and subjecting yourself to the tough demands of your life.
No Time for Etiquette During Holidays
I’ve been a professional in the mortgage banking industry for 20 years, and as an associate of Capstone Institute of Mortgage Finance, www.capinst.com I have attended my fair share of functions where dining is involved. It’s an understatement to say I am shocked at the number of people in today’s business world who don’t have a clue about proper etiquette. Regardless of how well they are dressed and carry themselves, the lack of proper etiquette can shatter a person’s professional image. There is no excuse for this happening in today’s world. Some may regard this as petty, but something happened over Thanksgiving that provokes me to ask, “Since when is there no time for etiquette during the holidays? How long does it take?” I’d like to share the following true story, as I’m certain there are many who can relate to this situation. Our Thanksgiving get-together included extended family and guests, totaling fourteen hungry folks gathered around the dining room table to consume the feast fit for Royalty. Emily Post would have been proud of how I set the table, the settings of dinnerware, silverware, and stemware in their proper placement with the napkins folded and appointed to perfection. All the hustle and bustle of the day, and standing on my feet for a day and a half, preparing enough to feed the Mormon Tabernacle Choir, left me “dog tired,” and unsure which part of my body ached more—my back and shoulders or my feet and legs. I was as hungry as the rest of the gang, patiently waiting in their assigned seats; however, I was still running back and forth to the kitchen to fetch even more delicious dishes I had forgotten were in the warming drawer. The table and four additional serving tables were already overflowing, so I then had to clear a spot in which to place the additional goodies. (Only in America do we as families have too much food—so much food we don’t have room for it all, on the table OR in our bellies. Only in America do we as people assume it is our right to gorge ourselves until we nearly explode, or until there is no more. Only in America do we as families take for granted the privileged lives we lead.) I was certainly proud of the way in which everyone waited until I was seated, and until my husband offered a prayer of Thanksgiving prior to passing the food around the table. The entire setting was the picture of blissful etiquette. The confusion began when one of the guests picked up a dish, served themselves, and then proceeded to pass the serving dish to their left. They also proceeded to pluck, not one or two, but three rolls from the bread basket and stacked them on the bread plate belonging to the party on their right. They then scooped up a big glob of butter, slapped it on the plate next to the rolls, and then sliced the rolls and slathered butter inside of each. In the meantime, I had begun sending the dishes in the proper direction—to the right—but this guest was oblivious to the chaos they were causing and sent another and yet another serving dish in the wrong direction. I didn’t want to embarrass my guest, so I just suggested we all begin passing to the right. Meanwhile, this guest began eating before all the food had been passed, and before I, as the hostess, ever raised my fork to take the first bite—which, of course, is a definite no-no. To make this guest feel more comfortable, my other guests all made a joke about being so hungry and that “it’s Thanksgiving, and there’s just no time for manners and all that etiquette stuff.” The truth be known, that one guest didn’t have a clue about the proper way to serve themselves and pass food along to the next. They were confused about which was their bread plate, so by mistakenly claiming their neighbor’s, it threw off the order of the entire table. To avoid further confusion, we all used our neighbors’ bread plates and went on with our meal. We should all be aware of protocol and the rules of etiquette and apply those rules on a daily basis, especially at holidays. We should be on our best behavior at holiday functions, whether they are family get-togethers or business events. I encourage everyone to familiarize yourselves with dining etiquette before you embarrass yourself, your spouse, your date, or heaven forbid, your boss at a formal affair. Your lack of etiquette could cost you a personal or business relationship, or even your job. There are many books on etiquette and social graces to be found in the library or the internet. You may want to seek the assistance of an expert on image development and etiquette before you use the incorrect fork, put your foot in your mouth, or worse—mistakenly use your neighbor’s bread plate.
Source: http://www.ArticlePros.com/author.php?Darlene
Source: http://www.ArticlePros.com/author.php?Darlene
Bass Fishing Tournament Etiquette
Bass fishing in tournaments doesn't seem like a sport in which "proper etiquette" really means much. I've fished many bass tournaments in Florida and found out through experience that it is very important.
Let's look at this bass tournament scenario. You get up early in the morning preparing for your fishing trip. You then drink a couple cups of coffee, light up a cigarette and take care the 3 s's before you hitch up your boat. Once on the road you have a nice conversation with your "draw" partner on where you're going to start and what you're gonna throw so you guys can catch loads of fish in your favorite honey hole.
By the end of the tournament, you weigh in your fish and manage to get 5th place! Lucky for you, the tournament had enough entries to pay all the way to 7th place. You are real happy until a few of the guys give you the "bird" and say some unpleasant things to you. Then you think, "What's their problem?"
It isn't until you partner says he's getting a ride home with someone else and starts taking his tackle out of your boat that you start thinking it maybe something you did.
Let's replay the tournament day.
Early that morning you get up a little late 'cause you forgot to set your alarm clock. Once on the road, you swing by to pick up your partner. He asks why you didn't call him telling him you would be a little late and you respond: "I didn't have time!" You also tell him that your swinging by the gas station and he needs to fill up the boat and truck since you make the boat and insurance payments. You emphasis that it's normal for the "draw" partner to do this.
You finally get to the boat launch area and wait patiently in the line of trucks to launch your boat. You leave your lights on so anyone coming behind you will see you. When you get to the front of the line you and your partner exit the truck, and start boat launch preparation. You put in the drain plug, take off your transom saver, pull of your safety straps, put in your boat lights, etc, etc. About 10 minutes later, your partner finally start backing you and the boat down the ramp. The sky is starting to light up from the early morning sun. The two trucks behind you start to honk their horns! You shout back, "You shoulda got here earlier!"
The boat is finally launched, you beach the boat and pick up your partner. The tournament director had already started to call the boats numbers out as many of them were already going down the lake. Your boat number had already been called, and there were about 20 other boats still waiting, so you quickly take off leaving a huge wake right in the middle of the waiting boats.
As you approach your fishing hole, you see another boat sitting right on your spot! The spot is a bulrush line which is loaded with bedding fish, but it's only about 30 yards long. You are real anxious so you don't get off plane until your right on the weedline. You quickly lower your trolling motor, pick up your bedding fish rig and start pitching the pockets and points along the bulrush patch. Your partner is doing the same thing, in fact he get's the 1st fish around 2 pounds and you tell him to swing it in like a "real" man.
The other boat doesn't have an anchor down nor has his trolling motor up so you edge to within 20 feet of his boat and as you do you get your 1st fish on. You yell at your partner to get the net and he quickly scoops up your nice 2 pound fish. You give him a high five for a nice netjob!
On the 1st pass, you noticed that the fish were getting spooked from their beds as you approached, so you decide to try to keep the boat outside of the weedline, with the nose of the boat pointing towards the weeds, and the back of the boat out in the main lake. You figure this tactic will keep 'em from spooking.
By about 10 AM, you have your limit and the tactic of keeping the back of the boat out of the weeds paid off. Your partner still only has one fish, but you think that he just doesn't know how to fish. He then asks you if he can share the front deck of the boat with you and you tell him no, there's no room and he'll mess up your hookset.
About noon, you've culled a few fish but can't seem to get a nice kicker fish. You see the other boat land a nice one, so you put your trolling motor on high and take the inside track in the bulrush patch right in front of the other boat. Your about 30 feet from the other boat, but buried up in the bulrush patch, scouting for bigger fish. You see a nice one about 4 pounds on a bed. The fish doen't seem to want anything as you toss just about everything in your tacklebox at it. Finally, you tie on a tube bait and "Wam" the 4 pounder hits, your partner quickly nets it and into the live well it goes.
You only have 30 minutes to go and to play it safe you decide to go. You fire up the big motor right in the middle of the weeds and take off, sending a nice wake into the other boat.
You get to the weighin with about 25 minutes left and beach it. You kick back waiting for the director while your partner takes off for the nearest restroom.
OK, so my story is a little extreme but lets look at the missing etiquette:
1- Always leave on time. Your partner won't worry and you'll get to the ramp and not hold up anyone.
2- Turn off your headlights while waiting in the launch line. Keep your parking lights on. This will prevent you from blinding the person that is backing the boat down the ramp!
3- Prepare for boat lauch long before you get to the front of the line. This will speed up the entire launch process for everyone.
4- Never plane right in the middle of a bunch of boats. You need to get beyond the last standing boat before you take off on plane.
5- Always give some room to another boat even if they don't have their trolling motor up/anchor down especially if they are there 1st. In the scenario above, you should only respectfully fish the furthest bulrush from the boat that is there or maybe not even fish there at all until he leaves. At least ask if he minds if you do decide to share the spot with him. If he says yes, you are way better off in the long run to leave. Your day will come!
6- Always net fish (if allowed by the tournament) and don't wait for the partner to ask you to get the net. If your partner prefers you not to net the fish, he'll tell you.
7- Always be considerate of your partners fishing position. In this scenarion, he didn't stand a chance because he was too far away to site fish! Offer him a chance at the front of the boat. In fact most tournaments (not the proams) state they have 50% share in running the trolling motor. At least ask, and if he refuses because he's not comfortable running it then fine.
8- Fish until the last possible minute with a slight safety factor unless you have a large limit of fish , especially if your draw partner isn't doing well. In this scenario, give you partner the full front of the boat and let him choose his spots.
9- Draw partners should only pay 50% of the fuel bill for both the tow vehicle and boat. If they drove to the ramp themselves, then they need only pay 50% of the boat fuel.
If you follow these bass fishing tips, you'll have a better relationship with all the fishing community!
Source: http://www.ArticlePros.com/author.php?Paul Bruessow
Let's look at this bass tournament scenario. You get up early in the morning preparing for your fishing trip. You then drink a couple cups of coffee, light up a cigarette and take care the 3 s's before you hitch up your boat. Once on the road you have a nice conversation with your "draw" partner on where you're going to start and what you're gonna throw so you guys can catch loads of fish in your favorite honey hole.
By the end of the tournament, you weigh in your fish and manage to get 5th place! Lucky for you, the tournament had enough entries to pay all the way to 7th place. You are real happy until a few of the guys give you the "bird" and say some unpleasant things to you. Then you think, "What's their problem?"
It isn't until you partner says he's getting a ride home with someone else and starts taking his tackle out of your boat that you start thinking it maybe something you did.
Let's replay the tournament day.
Early that morning you get up a little late 'cause you forgot to set your alarm clock. Once on the road, you swing by to pick up your partner. He asks why you didn't call him telling him you would be a little late and you respond: "I didn't have time!" You also tell him that your swinging by the gas station and he needs to fill up the boat and truck since you make the boat and insurance payments. You emphasis that it's normal for the "draw" partner to do this.
You finally get to the boat launch area and wait patiently in the line of trucks to launch your boat. You leave your lights on so anyone coming behind you will see you. When you get to the front of the line you and your partner exit the truck, and start boat launch preparation. You put in the drain plug, take off your transom saver, pull of your safety straps, put in your boat lights, etc, etc. About 10 minutes later, your partner finally start backing you and the boat down the ramp. The sky is starting to light up from the early morning sun. The two trucks behind you start to honk their horns! You shout back, "You shoulda got here earlier!"
The boat is finally launched, you beach the boat and pick up your partner. The tournament director had already started to call the boats numbers out as many of them were already going down the lake. Your boat number had already been called, and there were about 20 other boats still waiting, so you quickly take off leaving a huge wake right in the middle of the waiting boats.
As you approach your fishing hole, you see another boat sitting right on your spot! The spot is a bulrush line which is loaded with bedding fish, but it's only about 30 yards long. You are real anxious so you don't get off plane until your right on the weedline. You quickly lower your trolling motor, pick up your bedding fish rig and start pitching the pockets and points along the bulrush patch. Your partner is doing the same thing, in fact he get's the 1st fish around 2 pounds and you tell him to swing it in like a "real" man.
The other boat doesn't have an anchor down nor has his trolling motor up so you edge to within 20 feet of his boat and as you do you get your 1st fish on. You yell at your partner to get the net and he quickly scoops up your nice 2 pound fish. You give him a high five for a nice netjob!
On the 1st pass, you noticed that the fish were getting spooked from their beds as you approached, so you decide to try to keep the boat outside of the weedline, with the nose of the boat pointing towards the weeds, and the back of the boat out in the main lake. You figure this tactic will keep 'em from spooking.
By about 10 AM, you have your limit and the tactic of keeping the back of the boat out of the weeds paid off. Your partner still only has one fish, but you think that he just doesn't know how to fish. He then asks you if he can share the front deck of the boat with you and you tell him no, there's no room and he'll mess up your hookset.
About noon, you've culled a few fish but can't seem to get a nice kicker fish. You see the other boat land a nice one, so you put your trolling motor on high and take the inside track in the bulrush patch right in front of the other boat. Your about 30 feet from the other boat, but buried up in the bulrush patch, scouting for bigger fish. You see a nice one about 4 pounds on a bed. The fish doen't seem to want anything as you toss just about everything in your tacklebox at it. Finally, you tie on a tube bait and "Wam" the 4 pounder hits, your partner quickly nets it and into the live well it goes.
You only have 30 minutes to go and to play it safe you decide to go. You fire up the big motor right in the middle of the weeds and take off, sending a nice wake into the other boat.
You get to the weighin with about 25 minutes left and beach it. You kick back waiting for the director while your partner takes off for the nearest restroom.
OK, so my story is a little extreme but lets look at the missing etiquette:
1- Always leave on time. Your partner won't worry and you'll get to the ramp and not hold up anyone.
2- Turn off your headlights while waiting in the launch line. Keep your parking lights on. This will prevent you from blinding the person that is backing the boat down the ramp!
3- Prepare for boat lauch long before you get to the front of the line. This will speed up the entire launch process for everyone.
4- Never plane right in the middle of a bunch of boats. You need to get beyond the last standing boat before you take off on plane.
5- Always give some room to another boat even if they don't have their trolling motor up/anchor down especially if they are there 1st. In the scenario above, you should only respectfully fish the furthest bulrush from the boat that is there or maybe not even fish there at all until he leaves. At least ask if he minds if you do decide to share the spot with him. If he says yes, you are way better off in the long run to leave. Your day will come!
6- Always net fish (if allowed by the tournament) and don't wait for the partner to ask you to get the net. If your partner prefers you not to net the fish, he'll tell you.
7- Always be considerate of your partners fishing position. In this scenarion, he didn't stand a chance because he was too far away to site fish! Offer him a chance at the front of the boat. In fact most tournaments (not the proams) state they have 50% share in running the trolling motor. At least ask, and if he refuses because he's not comfortable running it then fine.
8- Fish until the last possible minute with a slight safety factor unless you have a large limit of fish , especially if your draw partner isn't doing well. In this scenario, give you partner the full front of the boat and let him choose his spots.
9- Draw partners should only pay 50% of the fuel bill for both the tow vehicle and boat. If they drove to the ramp themselves, then they need only pay 50% of the boat fuel.
If you follow these bass fishing tips, you'll have a better relationship with all the fishing community!
Source: http://www.ArticlePros.com/author.php?Paul Bruessow
etiquette moms
Etiquette training seems to have become hugely popular criteria finding a place in the global market. A lot of people linked with this category have managed to earn huge incomes. Situations have taken such a toll as more and more people are talking about notions of enhanced behavior and etiquette especially in regards to children.
Etiquette classes for children have overtly got into the trend and all the hype is for fresh and updated systems that would teach etiquette that they learn while growing up. The latest demand that is noticeable both among kids and parents is for novel, amusing and exhilarating ways to get hold of the discrete mannerisms and appropriate behavior. Gone are the days of cotillions and French balls when women were introduced with grace and grandeur to the society. Moms and Dads are more prone on finding some nice etiquette classes for their children now.
Etiquette Moms is a great site created by a charismatic woman called Elena Neitlich. Formerly a manager at one of the most fashionable and posh restaurants in Boston, Massachusetts she had the absolute experience of providing a white-glove treatment to the elegant guests. After that she started her own service of training domestic helps, butlers and house managers with the best quality etiquette and services of the international standard. She also became a certified children?s trainer in terms of discipline and acceptable behavior. Presently, she runs a flourishing company called Moms on Edge that caters products to busy parents and working moms so that they can be better parents entirely.
The products at Etiquette Moms are not just great but uniquely effective and hence have been mentioned in the famed Entrepreneur Magazine, the remarkable Today Show and various other regional and global media.
With a vivid look through Etiquette Moms and their various training sessions just any one can become a quality etiquette trainer giving out etiquette classes for children. You just need to have the right programs with the apt content and accurate activities to engage both the parents and children. Only that way can you get in touch with a growing generation of children and teach them effective etiquette lessons.
At Etiquette Moms you can get into one of the most recent trends in the paradigm of modern education. This sector is increasingly in demand of well-trained and skilled trainers as well-off clients are all ready to pay them for their time and effort in training their children in the best possible way.
So if you think you have the perfect personality to give etiquette classes for children you can very well join Etiquette Moms this moment. It won?t be a problem at all if you are rather new to this field or started a business of your own. You do not even have to have an idea of even the least element of etiquette training. Actually none of it is that significant. You can run this sort of a business from the comfort of your home just with the training that you get at Etiquette Moms and go ahead to make a nice online business for yourself.
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Etiquette classes for children have overtly got into the trend and all the hype is for fresh and updated systems that would teach etiquette that they learn while growing up. The latest demand that is noticeable both among kids and parents is for novel, amusing and exhilarating ways to get hold of the discrete mannerisms and appropriate behavior. Gone are the days of cotillions and French balls when women were introduced with grace and grandeur to the society. Moms and Dads are more prone on finding some nice etiquette classes for their children now.
Etiquette Moms is a great site created by a charismatic woman called Elena Neitlich. Formerly a manager at one of the most fashionable and posh restaurants in Boston, Massachusetts she had the absolute experience of providing a white-glove treatment to the elegant guests. After that she started her own service of training domestic helps, butlers and house managers with the best quality etiquette and services of the international standard. She also became a certified children?s trainer in terms of discipline and acceptable behavior. Presently, she runs a flourishing company called Moms on Edge that caters products to busy parents and working moms so that they can be better parents entirely.
The products at Etiquette Moms are not just great but uniquely effective and hence have been mentioned in the famed Entrepreneur Magazine, the remarkable Today Show and various other regional and global media.
With a vivid look through Etiquette Moms and their various training sessions just any one can become a quality etiquette trainer giving out etiquette classes for children. You just need to have the right programs with the apt content and accurate activities to engage both the parents and children. Only that way can you get in touch with a growing generation of children and teach them effective etiquette lessons.
At Etiquette Moms you can get into one of the most recent trends in the paradigm of modern education. This sector is increasingly in demand of well-trained and skilled trainers as well-off clients are all ready to pay them for their time and effort in training their children in the best possible way.
So if you think you have the perfect personality to give etiquette classes for children you can very well join Etiquette Moms this moment. It won?t be a problem at all if you are rather new to this field or started a business of your own. You do not even have to have an idea of even the least element of etiquette training. Actually none of it is that significant. You can run this sort of a business from the comfort of your home just with the training that you get at Etiquette Moms and go ahead to make a nice online business for yourself.
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Voice Over Work: Know Your Etiquette
Voice Over Work: Know Your Etiquette
By : Priscilla Groves
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Many actors achieve great success in this industry. Its fun, they make great cash, and they keep getting work over and over again. Then there are others who are struggling to even get one gig. After many years as a copywriter working with successful (and a few not so successful) voiceovers, and founder of a few online voiceover directories I ve been studying what makes certain voiceovers successful.
The biggest way you are going to get money in this job is to get repeat business. People tend to use those they like and trust over and over again. And how do you get repeat business? Be nice.
1. Arrive 10 minutes early.
You want to make a good impression. (Especially since there’s a room full of clients/sound engineers/producers/copywriters/account directors waiting just for you.)
2. Drink up.
Have a glass of water with you when you re in the booth to keep your voice clear. Don t order a coffee at the studio, it mucks your voice up.
3. Be patient.
Remember, copywriters can be quite anal, so you will be asked to do something over and over and over again. It doesn’t mean you’re not doing a good job. It’s just the nature of the beast.
4. It’s not your ad.
Again, copywriters can be quite anal. They probably have a specific idea about what they’re looking for. All you can do is try to figure out what the fcek they mean when they say ‘warm yet corporate’ or ‘more energy, but slow it down a bit’ or something else vague. Try to be patient and not have too many “creative differences”.
5. Make your escape.
When you re done your gig, say your goodbyes and thank you s. No need to stick around.
6. Leave a business card behind.
Give it to the copywriter or agency producer, and simply say thanks for the gig, here s my card if you need anything . Some companies offer to design cards for free for VO’s, as it leaves such a good impression when they leave their cards behind in studios.
7. Don’t go with a hangover.
Don t get boozed up the night before a gig. Or at least not if the gig is in the morning. Your voice will thank you for it.
8. Do your thing.
If you re doing a voice over with a few different actors in studio, don t have a bash at their lines. (Actors can also be quite anal sometimes).
Just do the lines you were asked to do.
9. Remain calm.
If you ve no experience in studio as a rule, try not to say too much or crack too many jokes. The nerves really show up then. Just put your headphones on, be friendly and do your best. As time goes by, you ll feel more relaxed in studio.
10. Make suggestions.
Its ok to make suggestions for minor script changes, for example, if something isn t reading well or sounding natural. But just test the waters. Sometimes, for a plethora of boring bureaucratic reasons,
the client can be strict about script changes, so don t push it too much.
Author Resource:- http://www.piehole.co.uk and http://www.piehole.ie are two leading voiceover talent websites. They are independent directories of voiceovers in UK and Ireland and were created by copywriters, for copywriters.
By : Priscilla Groves
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Many actors achieve great success in this industry. Its fun, they make great cash, and they keep getting work over and over again. Then there are others who are struggling to even get one gig. After many years as a copywriter working with successful (and a few not so successful) voiceovers, and founder of a few online voiceover directories I ve been studying what makes certain voiceovers successful.
The biggest way you are going to get money in this job is to get repeat business. People tend to use those they like and trust over and over again. And how do you get repeat business? Be nice.
1. Arrive 10 minutes early.
You want to make a good impression. (Especially since there’s a room full of clients/sound engineers/producers/copywriters/account directors waiting just for you.)
2. Drink up.
Have a glass of water with you when you re in the booth to keep your voice clear. Don t order a coffee at the studio, it mucks your voice up.
3. Be patient.
Remember, copywriters can be quite anal, so you will be asked to do something over and over and over again. It doesn’t mean you’re not doing a good job. It’s just the nature of the beast.
4. It’s not your ad.
Again, copywriters can be quite anal. They probably have a specific idea about what they’re looking for. All you can do is try to figure out what the fcek they mean when they say ‘warm yet corporate’ or ‘more energy, but slow it down a bit’ or something else vague. Try to be patient and not have too many “creative differences”.
5. Make your escape.
When you re done your gig, say your goodbyes and thank you s. No need to stick around.
6. Leave a business card behind.
Give it to the copywriter or agency producer, and simply say thanks for the gig, here s my card if you need anything . Some companies offer to design cards for free for VO’s, as it leaves such a good impression when they leave their cards behind in studios.
7. Don’t go with a hangover.
Don t get boozed up the night before a gig. Or at least not if the gig is in the morning. Your voice will thank you for it.
8. Do your thing.
If you re doing a voice over with a few different actors in studio, don t have a bash at their lines. (Actors can also be quite anal sometimes).
Just do the lines you were asked to do.
9. Remain calm.
If you ve no experience in studio as a rule, try not to say too much or crack too many jokes. The nerves really show up then. Just put your headphones on, be friendly and do your best. As time goes by, you ll feel more relaxed in studio.
10. Make suggestions.
Its ok to make suggestions for minor script changes, for example, if something isn t reading well or sounding natural. But just test the waters. Sometimes, for a plethora of boring bureaucratic reasons,
the client can be strict about script changes, so don t push it too much.
Author Resource:- http://www.piehole.co.uk and http://www.piehole.ie are two leading voiceover talent websites. They are independent directories of voiceovers in UK and Ireland and were created by copywriters, for copywriters.
Driver Etiquette
Driver Etiquette: Do’s and Don’tsBy : A Nutt
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There are certain behavioral norms that we are used to following in regular interactions with other people. All that seems to go out the window when you are on the road. Road rage is far more commonly discussed these days than driver etiquette, but it’s our manners while driving that are most important.
What exactly should we be doing and how should we be acting while on the road? Here are a few guidelines.
DO
• Leave on time. If you’re rushed and racing to get to an appointment or meeting, you’ll be more stressed out and far more likely to ignore proper driver etiquette which could cause some serious problems.
• Let people pull in front of you. It really won’t delay your journey if you let one or two cars get into the line and you’ll save yourself and someone else a lot of frustration.
• Slow down. Going too fast means you could miss a sign or signal and end up in an accident. This isn’t just about etiquette, it’s also about safety.
• Give advance notice. If you’re going to turn, be sure to turn on your signal ahead of time, not just as you are about to make the turn. This lets the vehicles around you react appropriately.
• Dim your headlights. When coming up on another car, keep in mind that your brights can blind the other driver, whether reflecting in his rearview mirror or shining directly into the oncoming car.
• Move to one side when emergency vehicles come through. It might be tempting to race ahead, particularly if your turnoff is coming up, but keep in mind why they are in hurry and pull over.
• Let buses cut in. They are on a schedule and you’ll be able to overtake them at the next stop, which won’t take much time off your commute, but could make a big difference to those who travel public transport.
DON’T
• Expect people to guess what you’re thinking. It’s important to always let them know with signals what you are about to do. Expecting someone to get out of your way because you’re in a hurry is only going to cause problems.
• Tailgate. There is nothing more annoying than someone who just won’t back off, so move back and keep an appropriate distance between cars.
• Talk on the phone while driving. Studies have shown that you simply don’t have the same reflexes when having a conversation on the phone and using just one hand to drive. Instead, invest in a headless phone system or wait until you can pull over.
• Lose your temper. Take deep breaths or even pull over if you need to. Getting angry and giving in to road rage will only cause more trouble than it’s worth.
• Block cyclists and motorbikes. They might be annoying, but it’s not worth causing problems if they are trying to pass you on the shoulder.
• Drive too slowly. If you are going lower than the speed limit, make sure you move to one side so people can pass you. It’s rude to cause a hold up by driving too slowly.
Being polite on the road is just as important as having good table manners. How you act will affect the people around you and driving etiquette will also affect how you go through your day. Being nice to people is proven to make you feel better and boost morale, so it`s a good way to start the day off right, by letting someone move into the line ahead of you during rush hour.
Author Resource:- CAA Auto club offering membership roadside assistance, car and travel insurance Canada. http://caaneo.ca
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There are certain behavioral norms that we are used to following in regular interactions with other people. All that seems to go out the window when you are on the road. Road rage is far more commonly discussed these days than driver etiquette, but it’s our manners while driving that are most important.
What exactly should we be doing and how should we be acting while on the road? Here are a few guidelines.
DO
• Leave on time. If you’re rushed and racing to get to an appointment or meeting, you’ll be more stressed out and far more likely to ignore proper driver etiquette which could cause some serious problems.
• Let people pull in front of you. It really won’t delay your journey if you let one or two cars get into the line and you’ll save yourself and someone else a lot of frustration.
• Slow down. Going too fast means you could miss a sign or signal and end up in an accident. This isn’t just about etiquette, it’s also about safety.
• Give advance notice. If you’re going to turn, be sure to turn on your signal ahead of time, not just as you are about to make the turn. This lets the vehicles around you react appropriately.
• Dim your headlights. When coming up on another car, keep in mind that your brights can blind the other driver, whether reflecting in his rearview mirror or shining directly into the oncoming car.
• Move to one side when emergency vehicles come through. It might be tempting to race ahead, particularly if your turnoff is coming up, but keep in mind why they are in hurry and pull over.
• Let buses cut in. They are on a schedule and you’ll be able to overtake them at the next stop, which won’t take much time off your commute, but could make a big difference to those who travel public transport.
DON’T
• Expect people to guess what you’re thinking. It’s important to always let them know with signals what you are about to do. Expecting someone to get out of your way because you’re in a hurry is only going to cause problems.
• Tailgate. There is nothing more annoying than someone who just won’t back off, so move back and keep an appropriate distance between cars.
• Talk on the phone while driving. Studies have shown that you simply don’t have the same reflexes when having a conversation on the phone and using just one hand to drive. Instead, invest in a headless phone system or wait until you can pull over.
• Lose your temper. Take deep breaths or even pull over if you need to. Getting angry and giving in to road rage will only cause more trouble than it’s worth.
• Block cyclists and motorbikes. They might be annoying, but it’s not worth causing problems if they are trying to pass you on the shoulder.
• Drive too slowly. If you are going lower than the speed limit, make sure you move to one side so people can pass you. It’s rude to cause a hold up by driving too slowly.
Being polite on the road is just as important as having good table manners. How you act will affect the people around you and driving etiquette will also affect how you go through your day. Being nice to people is proven to make you feel better and boost morale, so it`s a good way to start the day off right, by letting someone move into the line ahead of you during rush hour.
Author Resource:- CAA Auto club offering membership roadside assistance, car and travel insurance Canada. http://caaneo.ca
Garden Etiquette
Garden Etiquette
By : Jerry Van Der Kolk
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Have you ever gone to one of those garden shows and been so completely intimidated
that you were afraid to move? You know, where every hosta leaf looks like it has been polished, and every flower is perfect, and the ground has been raked like a Japanese sand garden.
Knowing the garden etiquette rules is sort of like knowing which fork to use at a grand dinner
party. It helps you relax and enjoy the evening. So here are some tips for good garden etiquette:
Don't walk in the gardens. Paths are made for walking on. Sometimes grass is okay to walk on. It's never okay to walk in the gardens unless your host or hostess tells you it is.
Don't smoke. It's not good for you, your host or the plants.
Do not litter.
Do not sample. Do not take flowers, leaves, tiny cuttings that no one would notice or any thing else.
No samples of any kind unless your host generously gives it as a gift.
Do not go inside the house or ask to use the bathroom. Garden tours do not include the house.
Do not bring your dog. Dogs and gardens don't mix well.
Do not bring your children, unless they are well-behaved and can enjoy the garden.
Do admire. Loudly, frequently and with many oohs and aahs.
Do ask questions. Gardeners love to share information. You can learn a lot from people who
grow beautiful gardens. They will share with you how to grow that hosta, or where to get that
particular rose, or how to make compost.
On the other side of the fence, if you are hosting a garden tour, good manners will make your guests feel
more comfortable and less intimidated.
Allow a little imperfection. One or two brown leaves on the hostas, or a droopy flower or something out of place will make your guests feel more comfortable.
Make it clear where people can walk. Put up signs and/or rope off forbidden areas.
Have a trash container available, just in case somebody needs to throw something away.
Be nice. Overlook small offenses, noisy children (as long as they aren't destroying anything) or other things that could get your knickers in a twist.
Provide refreshments. Refreshments can be as elaborate as appetizers and champagne, or as simple as iced water. Refreshments aren't required, but they are a gracious touch.
If it is okay for people to use your bathroom, offer it. Don't make them ask.
Whether you are the host or an attendee, a few simple rules of garden etiquette make any garden show less intimidating and more enjoyable for all concerned.
Author Resource:- The author, Jerry Van Der Kolk, has been involved directly with the Horticulture Industry for over 20 years. He now devotes his time to growing hard-to-find hostas for hosta collectors via his popular website http://www.DirectSourceHostas.com.
By : Jerry Van Der Kolk
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Have you ever gone to one of those garden shows and been so completely intimidated
that you were afraid to move? You know, where every hosta leaf looks like it has been polished, and every flower is perfect, and the ground has been raked like a Japanese sand garden.
Knowing the garden etiquette rules is sort of like knowing which fork to use at a grand dinner
party. It helps you relax and enjoy the evening. So here are some tips for good garden etiquette:
Don't walk in the gardens. Paths are made for walking on. Sometimes grass is okay to walk on. It's never okay to walk in the gardens unless your host or hostess tells you it is.
Don't smoke. It's not good for you, your host or the plants.
Do not litter.
Do not sample. Do not take flowers, leaves, tiny cuttings that no one would notice or any thing else.
No samples of any kind unless your host generously gives it as a gift.
Do not go inside the house or ask to use the bathroom. Garden tours do not include the house.
Do not bring your dog. Dogs and gardens don't mix well.
Do not bring your children, unless they are well-behaved and can enjoy the garden.
Do admire. Loudly, frequently and with many oohs and aahs.
Do ask questions. Gardeners love to share information. You can learn a lot from people who
grow beautiful gardens. They will share with you how to grow that hosta, or where to get that
particular rose, or how to make compost.
On the other side of the fence, if you are hosting a garden tour, good manners will make your guests feel
more comfortable and less intimidated.
Allow a little imperfection. One or two brown leaves on the hostas, or a droopy flower or something out of place will make your guests feel more comfortable.
Make it clear where people can walk. Put up signs and/or rope off forbidden areas.
Have a trash container available, just in case somebody needs to throw something away.
Be nice. Overlook small offenses, noisy children (as long as they aren't destroying anything) or other things that could get your knickers in a twist.
Provide refreshments. Refreshments can be as elaborate as appetizers and champagne, or as simple as iced water. Refreshments aren't required, but they are a gracious touch.
If it is okay for people to use your bathroom, offer it. Don't make them ask.
Whether you are the host or an attendee, a few simple rules of garden etiquette make any garden show less intimidating and more enjoyable for all concerned.
Author Resource:- The author, Jerry Van Der Kolk, has been involved directly with the Horticulture Industry for over 20 years. He now devotes his time to growing hard-to-find hostas for hosta collectors via his popular website http://www.DirectSourceHostas.com.
Coffee Shop Etiquette
Starbucks Coffee Shop Etiquette Rules
By : Melvin Ng
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Starbucks, the coffee shop franchise run by entrepreneur Howard Schultz, has been one of the most phenomenal business success stories of the last twenty years. From having a few outlets in the Seattle district only so long ago as 1984, to now having outlets globally, including in China, Starbucks coffee has certainly come a long way fast.
Nonetheless, regardless of which of the Starbucks coffee outlets you visit, certain etiquette rules apply, as they do when visiting any coffee shops. While you should always be conscious that other cultures may have different variations on a number of the outlet etiquette rules, when visiting a Starbucks coffee in the United States you should note that:
1. Queuing is important. The front order area may look chaotic to you, but there is a certain system in place. If you're unfamiliar with the system in question, make sure you observe the queuing format.
2. Order when asked. There is a queue, so use this time to make up your mind what it is you wish to order. Do not wait to make up your mind once you are asked by the attendant. Other lovers of the Starbucks coffee flavor queuing behind you will quickly get annoyed!
3. Front living room. These shops have become successful on the concept that it's a little like having coffee in your own home. The beverage shop format is most certainly shunned. Consequently, if order in, when it comes time to leave, make sure you clean-up after yourself on the way out. Don't leave half drunk cups of Starbucks coffee lying around, or table napkins scrawled up on the table-tops. Ideally, when you leave the place you have been occupying should be ready to use by the next Starbucks coffee shop patron.
4. Make sure you drink something. Many patrons of Starbucks love the atmosphere of the outlet. There's absolutely nothing wrong with this, and it should be encouraged. However, making free use of Wi-Fi, newspapers and magazines come with a trade-off - you are expected to drink something! What's more, if you are making use of the Starbucks facilities, keep on ordering - otherwise you are taking up valuable space another patron could be making use of.
5. Noise. We've all seen the person who has a mobile phone they like to be seen talking into in order to appear important to us. We've all also had the experience of sitting next to people who are, bluntly, loud. Yes, Starbucks coffee shop outlets do have the appearance of having a coffee in your own living room. However, there are other patrons of Starbucks coffee shop other than you wishing to have the same experience as you want, namely a coffee in the comfort of their own home. Hearing noisy people on the phone or loud chatter takes away from this experience, so try and keep the noise level down.
If everyone remembers to keep to a few core etiquette rules, we can all have the ultimate Starbucks coffee shop experience that has made this chain of coffee shops the success that it has become.
Author Resource:- For more info on starbucks coffee, please visit our website. Starbucks Coffee
By : Melvin Ng
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Starbucks, the coffee shop franchise run by entrepreneur Howard Schultz, has been one of the most phenomenal business success stories of the last twenty years. From having a few outlets in the Seattle district only so long ago as 1984, to now having outlets globally, including in China, Starbucks coffee has certainly come a long way fast.
Nonetheless, regardless of which of the Starbucks coffee outlets you visit, certain etiquette rules apply, as they do when visiting any coffee shops. While you should always be conscious that other cultures may have different variations on a number of the outlet etiquette rules, when visiting a Starbucks coffee in the United States you should note that:
1. Queuing is important. The front order area may look chaotic to you, but there is a certain system in place. If you're unfamiliar with the system in question, make sure you observe the queuing format.
2. Order when asked. There is a queue, so use this time to make up your mind what it is you wish to order. Do not wait to make up your mind once you are asked by the attendant. Other lovers of the Starbucks coffee flavor queuing behind you will quickly get annoyed!
3. Front living room. These shops have become successful on the concept that it's a little like having coffee in your own home. The beverage shop format is most certainly shunned. Consequently, if order in, when it comes time to leave, make sure you clean-up after yourself on the way out. Don't leave half drunk cups of Starbucks coffee lying around, or table napkins scrawled up on the table-tops. Ideally, when you leave the place you have been occupying should be ready to use by the next Starbucks coffee shop patron.
4. Make sure you drink something. Many patrons of Starbucks love the atmosphere of the outlet. There's absolutely nothing wrong with this, and it should be encouraged. However, making free use of Wi-Fi, newspapers and magazines come with a trade-off - you are expected to drink something! What's more, if you are making use of the Starbucks facilities, keep on ordering - otherwise you are taking up valuable space another patron could be making use of.
5. Noise. We've all seen the person who has a mobile phone they like to be seen talking into in order to appear important to us. We've all also had the experience of sitting next to people who are, bluntly, loud. Yes, Starbucks coffee shop outlets do have the appearance of having a coffee in your own living room. However, there are other patrons of Starbucks coffee shop other than you wishing to have the same experience as you want, namely a coffee in the comfort of their own home. Hearing noisy people on the phone or loud chatter takes away from this experience, so try and keep the noise level down.
If everyone remembers to keep to a few core etiquette rules, we can all have the ultimate Starbucks coffee shop experience that has made this chain of coffee shops the success that it has become.
Author Resource:- For more info on starbucks coffee, please visit our website. Starbucks Coffee
12 Tips on Bowling Etiquette
By : Bill Weaver
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Every sport has its rules of etiquette. In golf, for example, one does not talk or move while a player is shooting. In basketball, the crowd is silent when a free throw is made. Even in such a rugged sport as boxing, a man who has scored a knockdown retires to the farthest neutral corner to allow his opponent a chance to get up after a count. So it is in bowling. What it really boils down to is courtesy, once you have an inkling of the rules. Here are some points to remember:
1. Observe the foul line at all times. This goes for practice as well as for tournament or league play. You owe it to your teammates and to those around you to refrain from any such action as fouling, which would penalize your score and consequently that of your team. Fouling frequently brings on loud and unpleasant grumbling, in itself another breach of etiquette.
2. Never two-ball a pinboy. By this, I mean don't fire another ball down the lane before the first one has been returned to you. You might injure the pinboy, and you are sure to make yourself mighty unpopular with those around you, even if you don't hurt him. Remember, if the pinboy should be injured, you might find yourself liable for damages.
3. Don't mar bowling alley approaches. If you have any slippery or gummy substance on your bowling shoes (one should never bowl in street shoes), get rid of it before you step onto the approaches. If your shoes leave skid marks, remove the marks with steel wool. Avoid excessive use of chalk. Do not mar the alley approach or the alley bed with pencil, crayon, chalk or any such substance.
4. Remain on the bench until it is your turn to bowl. If you get up before your time you will interfere directly or indirectly with those who are already on the approaches. Give others the same common courtesy you would want for yourself.
5. There is no rule against body english. Lots of bowlers, even the experts, are prone to use it at times. But when you use it, remember that you have the right to use only the space enclosed by the width of your own lane. You are not expected to teeter or lean so far that your body encroaches onto the next alley and bothers the adjoining bowler. Try to cut down on your "body english" in practice and you will use less of it in league and tournament play.
6. Give the bowler on your right preference at all times. Because you swing your ball at your right side, you have to be more careful of the man on your right than the one on your left. Let him shoot before you do, if you are both beginning at the very same time.
7. Eliminate dilly-dallying between shots. Don't fall into the habit of going through a dozen meaningless motions, such as scraping your feet back and forth, wiping your hands on your clothing three or four successive times, moving your ball back and forth or up and down without moving your feet, or any such actions which not only delay the game but serve to make you more tense than before. Get into your starting stance, sight at the target and roll the ball.
8. Don't distract or bother other bowlers. Before going to the rack for your ball, make sure that you will not interfere with other players. After you have selected the ball, be careful not to back into anyone's path. These are important safety rules as well as good bowling manners.
9. Be ready to bowl when it is your turn. Don't carry on long conversations with outsiders or engage in activities not directly concerned with your bowling. You owe it to your teammates and your opponents alike to keep your mind on the game at all times.
10. Confine your remarks to those on the bench. Do not talk to or attempt to gain the attention of a bowler already on the approaches.
11. Control your temper - Be a good loser. By that I don't mean that you should give up easily, for everyone likes a real competitor. But once beaten, take your defeat gracefully.
12. Don't give advice unless asked for it. In short, simply do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
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Every sport has its rules of etiquette. In golf, for example, one does not talk or move while a player is shooting. In basketball, the crowd is silent when a free throw is made. Even in such a rugged sport as boxing, a man who has scored a knockdown retires to the farthest neutral corner to allow his opponent a chance to get up after a count. So it is in bowling. What it really boils down to is courtesy, once you have an inkling of the rules. Here are some points to remember:
1. Observe the foul line at all times. This goes for practice as well as for tournament or league play. You owe it to your teammates and to those around you to refrain from any such action as fouling, which would penalize your score and consequently that of your team. Fouling frequently brings on loud and unpleasant grumbling, in itself another breach of etiquette.
2. Never two-ball a pinboy. By this, I mean don't fire another ball down the lane before the first one has been returned to you. You might injure the pinboy, and you are sure to make yourself mighty unpopular with those around you, even if you don't hurt him. Remember, if the pinboy should be injured, you might find yourself liable for damages.
3. Don't mar bowling alley approaches. If you have any slippery or gummy substance on your bowling shoes (one should never bowl in street shoes), get rid of it before you step onto the approaches. If your shoes leave skid marks, remove the marks with steel wool. Avoid excessive use of chalk. Do not mar the alley approach or the alley bed with pencil, crayon, chalk or any such substance.
4. Remain on the bench until it is your turn to bowl. If you get up before your time you will interfere directly or indirectly with those who are already on the approaches. Give others the same common courtesy you would want for yourself.
5. There is no rule against body english. Lots of bowlers, even the experts, are prone to use it at times. But when you use it, remember that you have the right to use only the space enclosed by the width of your own lane. You are not expected to teeter or lean so far that your body encroaches onto the next alley and bothers the adjoining bowler. Try to cut down on your "body english" in practice and you will use less of it in league and tournament play.
6. Give the bowler on your right preference at all times. Because you swing your ball at your right side, you have to be more careful of the man on your right than the one on your left. Let him shoot before you do, if you are both beginning at the very same time.
7. Eliminate dilly-dallying between shots. Don't fall into the habit of going through a dozen meaningless motions, such as scraping your feet back and forth, wiping your hands on your clothing three or four successive times, moving your ball back and forth or up and down without moving your feet, or any such actions which not only delay the game but serve to make you more tense than before. Get into your starting stance, sight at the target and roll the ball.
8. Don't distract or bother other bowlers. Before going to the rack for your ball, make sure that you will not interfere with other players. After you have selected the ball, be careful not to back into anyone's path. These are important safety rules as well as good bowling manners.
9. Be ready to bowl when it is your turn. Don't carry on long conversations with outsiders or engage in activities not directly concerned with your bowling. You owe it to your teammates and your opponents alike to keep your mind on the game at all times.
10. Confine your remarks to those on the bench. Do not talk to or attempt to gain the attention of a bowler already on the approaches.
11. Control your temper - Be a good loser. By that I don't mean that you should give up easily, for everyone likes a real competitor. But once beaten, take your defeat gracefully.
12. Don't give advice unless asked for it. In short, simply do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
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Interview Etiquette
By far, interview etiquette remains the third most important factor that decides the fates of most job candidates. Subject expertise or skills and body language are the only two qualities that score over interview etiquette, according to expert human resource practitioners. These elements gain importance, as they are often the only indications of a candidate's character. Interview Etiquette: An Overview If etiquette can be described as rules governing socially acceptable behavior, they apply to a job interview, too, in the same fashion. Good etiquette shows from the moment you enter the company, and how you conduct yourself until you are called.
1. Unless someone shows you in, knock at the door before you enter.
2. Being lenient with dressing, un-pressed clothing or wearing casual clothing for interviews is simply not good etiquette. An office environment and especially interviews call for formal dress.
3. Greeting the interviewer is another aspect of etiquette. Greet him before he greets you, and with a firm handshake. Be assertive in shaking hands, as this is where you can start building a good impression. Remember, being assertive does not mean you are aggressive. Some people slightly take back their opposite shoulder and bend forward simultaneously while shaking hands as a show of respect. But don't indulge in over doing it or shaking hands for endless seconds.
4. Wait until they offer a seat to you or you can ask them if you can have a seat. Choose a seat opposite the interviewer so you can keep direct eye contact. You can sit in a semi-casual position. Crossing the legs at knees may be alright but you should never put a foot over your opposite knee. Shaking your legs during the interview or scratching your head are things to avoid.
5. If you are offered business card, don't just stuff it into your pocket; instead, study the card for a while. You should ask a pertinent question, too. Never write anything on the card; it is not your notepad.
6. Trying to monopolize the conversation will often annoy the interviewer. Making rude remarks or speaking negatively about your past employers will expose the down side of your character. Sitting there with nothing to say can be seen as a negative. You have to have something to say, even if it is just small talk.
7. When you are asked to talk about yourself, they are not asking about your family or personal history. This is your opportunity to make the most of your time; talk about how you can contribute to the organization and so on.
8. Avoid discussing salary in the beginning unless the interviewer brings it up first.
9. Never forget to thank the interviewer before you leave the room; also don't forget to ask whether they want you to get in touch with them or when they can get back you.
10. On your way out, give a thank you and a smile to the receptionist or secretary. These are the people that will often give feedback to the interviewer.
Author Resource:- Tony Jacowski is a quality analyst for The MBA Journal. Aveta Solution's Six Sigma Online offers online six sigma training and certification classes for lean six sigma, black belts, green belts, and yellow belts.
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1. Unless someone shows you in, knock at the door before you enter.
2. Being lenient with dressing, un-pressed clothing or wearing casual clothing for interviews is simply not good etiquette. An office environment and especially interviews call for formal dress.
3. Greeting the interviewer is another aspect of etiquette. Greet him before he greets you, and with a firm handshake. Be assertive in shaking hands, as this is where you can start building a good impression. Remember, being assertive does not mean you are aggressive. Some people slightly take back their opposite shoulder and bend forward simultaneously while shaking hands as a show of respect. But don't indulge in over doing it or shaking hands for endless seconds.
4. Wait until they offer a seat to you or you can ask them if you can have a seat. Choose a seat opposite the interviewer so you can keep direct eye contact. You can sit in a semi-casual position. Crossing the legs at knees may be alright but you should never put a foot over your opposite knee. Shaking your legs during the interview or scratching your head are things to avoid.
5. If you are offered business card, don't just stuff it into your pocket; instead, study the card for a while. You should ask a pertinent question, too. Never write anything on the card; it is not your notepad.
6. Trying to monopolize the conversation will often annoy the interviewer. Making rude remarks or speaking negatively about your past employers will expose the down side of your character. Sitting there with nothing to say can be seen as a negative. You have to have something to say, even if it is just small talk.
7. When you are asked to talk about yourself, they are not asking about your family or personal history. This is your opportunity to make the most of your time; talk about how you can contribute to the organization and so on.
8. Avoid discussing salary in the beginning unless the interviewer brings it up first.
9. Never forget to thank the interviewer before you leave the room; also don't forget to ask whether they want you to get in touch with them or when they can get back you.
10. On your way out, give a thank you and a smile to the receptionist or secretary. These are the people that will often give feedback to the interviewer.
Author Resource:- Tony Jacowski is a quality analyst for The MBA Journal. Aveta Solution's Six Sigma Online offers online six sigma training and certification classes for lean six sigma, black belts, green belts, and yellow belts.
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Saturday, January 3, 2009
Etiquette Training
Etiquette Training
By: adams1
Etiquette training can be both fun and educational. This is a program that’s for moms, teachers and others like you. Did you know that you can earn in an extremely fulfilling way helping children learn habits? Teaching etiquette takes into consideration all of the above, viz. proper behavior and good manners. You can always become an Etiquette Trainer even if you are totally new in the etiquette field, or are thinking of getting started. You can even do it if you’ve never had a first hand experience of running a business before, or are ignorant of the teaching etiquette.
Etiquette training can be both fun and educational. This is a program that’s for moms, teachers and others like you. Did you know that you can earn in an extremely fulfilling way helping children learn habits? Teaching etiquette takes into consideration all of the above, viz. proper behavior and good manners. You can always become an Etiquette Trainer even if you are totally new in the etiquette field, or are thinking of getting started. You can even do it if you’ve never had a first hand experience of running a business before, or are ignorant of the teaching etiquette.
Here are some of the benefits of being an Etiquette Trainer:
Parents and teachers can’t wait to teach their children/students the information you impart.
You set yourself apart with as the etiquette expert, thanks to your teaching etiquette.
People refer your etiquette training to others even before they have hired you, because your job is exclusive and motivating.
Marketing is easy, and cheap.
Your work is enjoyable and rewarding.
Etiquette training provides you with a unique opportunity of becoming an in-demand respected etiquette trainer for children. If you are interested in programs with the right kind of activities and content to engage parents, teachers, and children, teaching etiquette is a good prospect. You need no qualification as such, or money to stake. All you need is a little time and the compliance to follow some easy instructions. You can now run your business conveniently from the comfort of your home. Whether you are self-employed, a stay-at-home Mom, or looking to create an alternate stream of income, the Etiquette training program helps you attain your goals.
The market for teaching etiquette for children includes:
Teachers of children between 3 and 12
Mommy-and-me groups
Public seminars at local restaurants
Moms who want to host teaching etiquette parties.
Public seminars at YMCA or your local community center
After-school programs
Moms who will buy products that you market either in your community or online
The Etiquette Trainer program comprises the following:
Children's Etiquette Trainer Marketing Manual
Personalized consulting
Certificate documenting that you are a certified in children's etiquette training
Membership in exclusive online community and Etiquette Moms Club
PowerPoint Presentation "Secrets to Being a Great Teacher"
The program shows you how to get into etiquette training, one of the most in-demand educational trends of today. By training young children, you can have desired clients visiting.
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Etiquette training is a fun way of making an extra buck! As an Etiquette Trainer, you're required to know the teaching etiquette to impart it to your children or students. You can also be an etiquette trainer and start earning today!
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